Boyfriend loves to touch my “soft”’spots?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend loves touching my “soft spots” which, for a lack of better term, is where I have fat...

Now I’m not FAT fat so deffs not chubby chaser material (im 166cm and 65-68kg so bigger but not BIG).

He likes to grab my stomach and hips, even my back fat (which I’m super self conscious about). When we’re snuggling he’ll rub my belly and boobs.

Why does he do this? Any other guys do this to their girlfriends too?

[SaskiaBlueRaySoul]

hey hunny, you are blessed with this guy. i know as a woman its hard to get over what outside influences have put upon us. You are a woman as a woman should be with the softness which yes includes a higher body fat than men, which is why they love it. Your areas you mention are the ones that are greatest enhanced by being a natural healthy weight. 99.9% of what i see in real life is guys with girls who are at least naturally healthy weight or more. I recently got to experience what when men say they dont like skinny women.. a work colleague your height skin and bone hugged her goodbye omg it was horrible quite horrific actually i held a skeleton in my arms... why would any guy prefer that over some like you and your softness? Let him adore him like he clearly does xx

[Carihia]

Mine does it all the time I hate it (even though I only weigh 89 pounds due to medical reasons my height makes me look bigger) personally it makes me feel insecure and like I'm not good enough because plently of other prettier thinner girls have offered him a relationship. He does it because he says there's more of me to love and he thinks I'm perfect but that's just my experience, everyone's past makes their views different you know? If it really bothers you I'd say just tell him the truth.

[UnaKaizen]

@ (even though I only weigh 89 pounds due to medical reasons my height makes me look bigger)

just cuirious what does that mean?

height doesn't make your weight look heavier. the same weight is proportionately heavier on a shorter person. a 5 t 11 person is going to be MUCH thinner than a 5 ft person at same weight. its not the height making them look heavier. they are heavier for their height.

but maybe you just meant medical reasons make you look heavier than you are -like swelling or something?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if this is similar but you know how many girls get those tiny fat deposits between the armpit and breast? My boyfriend touches mine all the time. he's just so mesmerized because most men don't develop that and he just doesn't have experience with it.

[SirRexington]

Because men love soft things. We're all rough and tough all day until we are with that special person. You happen to be soft in some places and believe it or not, tummies can turn a guy on. They are soft and squishy, smooth and tender.

Also your hips are something men and women love to hold on to. Women complain about love handles and I'm like, why do you think they are called love handles? It's not for no reason. You hold them like handles when making love.

[aa180]

Seriously, why does every girl find it strange that guys are attracted to things that are soft to touch? i think it makes a lot more sense than girls having an obsession with playing with a long, hard, sausage-like dick.

[Wollu]

Because men like soft, what else? Should he touch your teeth? Would this be normal for you? How come that a girl doesn't know what a guy would like? Titts, pussy, ass, belly, cheeks are all soft. I don't see man ever touching somewhere else than there.

[Bliss-taylor]

My husband does that too. No matter my weight. I've been 50lbs over weight before. After having our daughter. He did it even then. He told me he doesn't think about it like that. He wouldn't be loving up my body with his hands if he didn't like it.

[aa180]

Softness is an incredibly feminine quality to have and is really one of the main reasons guys are so strongly attracted to women. The fact that they're the OPPOSITE of a guy and make women unique draws us closer to you than you can ever imagine. It's really when women get confused about this that makes us facepalm.

[Mrblueballs42]

probally kinky for him. Just tell him to stop if its uncomfortable. Dont deny boobs or butt but dont let him touch flab. For me I like licking the neck and touching the inner thigh and you know where. I finkd it kinky and fun but if the lady says no then its off limits.

[Anonymous]

Guys love that chubby soft spots... I do like it... if a girl is superfat then.. it's her problem of not eating healthy or working out... a little. but of chubby bits... it's jus fine... u don't need to be insecure about it... I love playing with boobs ass and love handles... so does every guy.. I feel sad for the women who are actually skinny... they feel actually more insecure

[reixun]

Yea, he likes touching my lower stomach area, love handles and thighs a lot which are my softest parts 🤗 i think it’s squishy and huggable

[anuragk033]

If it's my girlfriend hell yes because her whole body is soft like baby but I like her cheeks most😊

[LeoZay]

He's a softie for soft spots nothing to worry about.

[Prince_Vegeta]

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[Uhhjsshshdh]

Because curves are attractive.
He likes your thicc.

[Bittu009]

I did it with my girlfriend and she liked it.
It feels very good to touch lol that's y I did.

[james_mark]

If he is vegan he wouldn't do it Jk.. it's sexy and lovely

[Sivuk]

It's completely normal, don't be self conscious about it

[reptocarl]

Because it feels good

[OfDeath]

Lol you have back fat 😂😂

[BlueWaffleLover]

I do that. Just feels nice and squishy.

[Anonymous]

Every guy is different it seems he enjoys it

[hansloserman23]

Not good

[Anonymous]

if ur uncomfortable then y dnt u let him knw