Guys, Is it true a guy takes a really long time to fall in love? (Page 3)

Anonymous · 2018-04-08T23:49:58Z

short version: can guys fall in love with a girl quickly, in a few months? or is it true it takes 'a year' for a guy to love a girl? how long would you wait for sex for a girl you fell in love with? --- My boyfriend lost his virginity to me and I lost mine to his. According to his mom, he was always crazy about me and I could kind of tell by the way he spoils me, asks for opinions on everything, makes sure I'm pleased in bed, always wants to help out and loves to cuddle and always touch. He spends his time around me as much as he can and it's cute. We've been together about four months and friends three before that. He told me I'm his first love, drunk and sober, and there's points when he even cries when I cry. The first time we had sex, it wasn't awkward or weird, but it felt right - we both had fun exploring and he was gentle. I lost my virginity to him about 2 1/2 months into our relationship. My mom found out recently and told me I made a mistake because guys can't fall in love fast, and she keeps telling me he's going to leave me now and that's all he wanted. Although nothing changed between us, my mom always says 'oh he treats you different, bad now' when he doesn't and actually treats me like a queen and she constantly nags at me 24/7 saying I'm going to be dumped now. She makes me feel bad and honestly really scared. She makes me feel like my relationship is even a lie the way she constantly belittles and calls me a whore. He never had sex before and told me that he always seen it as something special. When we were friends his sister would make virgin boy jokes to him lol