How can I get a guy to stop dming me?

[CaliforniaSun22]

So this guy I met awhile ago - haven’t had much interaction with him but I always thought he was weird but harmless. It has been a period of time but me keeps sliding into my dms - when I post a story he always comments- I was trying to be friendly but - he took and inch and ran with it. I think he caught feelings - (we literally had two conversations that were vague ) I stopped responding and he still won’t give up - he still messaged me. it has been two months of this- I am friends with his sister - so it’s tuff! Please help! What should I respond in a mature way?

[Ayendee]

That's a tough one. Maybe ask his sister to break the news to him somehow? Preferably without hurting his feelings. If not then you'll just have to outright tell him. Maybe ask him how he feels about you then tell him you don't feel the same? Sticky situation you're in lol.

[CaliforniaSun22]

Haha! And this is why I’m going to the internet for help! Haha- Thanks! That is a good idea

[Ayendee]

No problem. Good luck!

[RetroAlpha]

Just tell him plainly. Guys don't understand female hints and vice-versa. If that fails, block him.

[CaliforniaSun22]

Thanks ! Im dreading it - but the boy don’t get it!

[AuroraRoseat]

I would let him know politely that you wish for him to stop responding to your posts and talk to you. You're not interested.

I do feel sorry for guys like that though. They're kind of desperate.

[CaliforniaSun22]

Yes, unfortunately it has come to that point - so I am talking to someone - do you think I should tell “the creeper” that I’m interested in someone else. And yes , I understand it’s hard to put yourself out there - he has plenty of friends that are girls - they are sweet and pretty - he can go after them! ( BOY BYE!)

[AuroraRoseat]

Lol! I think that would be perfect. You have someone else so you're not available and you're not interested in talking or a friendship with him.

[sarah009991]

I see no harm inflicted. You shouldn't even be worrying about this. Fastest route , ignore his messages and if he asks u in real life show no interest. Just act indifferent

[CaliforniaSun22]

Sad to say I have and he still won’t stop- I blocked him- so we will see what comes of it- it’s weird because we have the same friends

[sarah009991]

I hate dealing with such people. Good luck

[hasrett]

Just tell him straight off that you are not interested in him or texting him.
That way, if he keeps on doing that, it will be more understandable when you block him.

[Outdoorwanderer]

Stoppp wasting his time and tell him so he can move on

[CaliforniaSun22]

I agree - it’s not worth it

[ghostqueen]

That sounds so annoying. Either tell him to stop or block him.

[Logorithim]

Talk to his sister and ask her to take care of it- she'll know how to handle him.

[Anonymous]

Either use your sis as a go-between to let him know to stop, or just politely yet firmly tell him to stop. If he asks why, let him know (politely!), that he's coming off as creepy and you're starting to worry about your personal safety.

[Anonymous]

Either have a frank discussion and tell him to stop or block him

[MiamiMadness]

Tell him this:
“Apparently two months of me ignoring you isn’t giving you the hint huh?”

[CaliforniaSun22]

Haha! Right? Geez!

[MiamiMadness]

It might not work tho since there’s guys out there, like the one who downvoted me, who can’t handle the truth 😂

[CaliforniaSun22]

Haha! It might be the guy I’m having problems with 😂

[spartan55]

What's wrong with telling him? Smh

[CaliforniaSun22]

Honestly - I’m just scared because we have the same friends and I was friends with his sister prior to meeting him.

[spartan55]

Scared of what? Just be mature about it and tell him. So you would rather deal with The Leech because of some friendly politics... rip that bandaid!

[CaliforniaSun22]

Haha! Ok I will💪🏼

[respondergirl]

Ask him this question and see what he thinks

[CaliforniaSun22]

Ha! I should...

[Anonymous]

block him. thats the only way. if he creates another account and tries, again, its officially stalking, and you then need to get the cops involved

[iamzoey]

Leave him on open/read

[ChronicThinker]

Block him.

[TacoFamine]

Tell him what you thinking.

[Som123]

Tell him that I am not into you

[taleswapper]

Mute/block him.

[ATuairiscean]

Can't you block him

[txdiie_]

block...

[anametouse]

Block him lmao