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I don't really think about it.
I don't have to constantly tell myself that I don't care then that would be denial. But to be honest it doesn't really affect me.
It's to the point where seeing these type of questions are more tiring and presumptuous, rather than actually being annoying or offensive.
No, I can honestly say I am not. Someone that loose I have no interest in. I might have a superficial attraction (depending on the person) but certainly not be interested in a relationship.
If a "slut" on your job approached you, say, in the break room one day and quietly said to you, "You wanna do something wild after work?" would you really turn her down?
Yea probably actually. I had something like that happen to me at a bar (which I don't go to generally unless it's a special event).
I don’t discuss my body count with anyone. It’s my business. Did that with a boyfriend once, never again. It’s a catch 22 question
Nobody asked you for your body count. Although you being unnecessarily guarded about it by mentioning it in the first place is definitely an indication that you've slept with more than just a few men.
Is that so? I was just stating my experience with being asked that question. A woman’s answer to that question is a catch 22. You’re either a slut or inexperienced. Not being guarded about anything. Just sharing my experience. Isn’t that what this place is for?
Funny my post is getting so many likes. 🤣
Exactly. 9/10 the guy won’t know the girl’s true body count anyway.
@Irishivy You were, but to say you don't discuss body count has, in my experience, usually meant that the girl has had a lot of partners.
Am I slut or inexperienced? I like to keep people guessing while I party on and listen to their answers😉
@Coolgirl235 Actually a guy can get an idea of a woman's body count, or at least that's been my experience. I wrote an old Take on that once: A Guy Can Tell If A Woman Has Slept With Several Men ↗
@ManOnFire there is literally no way you can tell unless she tells you.
@Coolgirl235 No, you can get a very good idea of what her count is like. You most likely can't know the exact number but you can definitely get a good idea of an estimate. If you didn't read that Take you should.
No you can’t there is just no way. A vagina doesn’t get significantly wider or bigger if a girl has had a lot of sex. So there is no way.
Withholding vital information from someone who is entitled to it (such as a potential or present SO) amounts to lying.
You wouldn't want to be lied about something like that, would you?
As long as you are clean on an std test, it’s no ones business. All it does is cause arguments and hurt
And when the SO finds out from some other agency... big happy family?
I’m 46. I highly doubt he will run into them. A couple are even dead
@Irishivy And THAT is the smoking gun. Any time a person is worried about number of partners causing conflict or hurt it's because that person does have a high number, and the vast majority of people with this concern are women.
You are soooo wrong about me
@Coolgirl235 I'm talking about knowing through her personality and behavior. Not her actual pudenda.
@ManOnFire well said.
In my experience any SO has trouble imagining you with anyone. Even if it’s 1 partner. Men around my part don’t like thinking I had anyone. Like I was a nun till I met them. Who wants to have that conversation anyway? I want to invest in my future, not my past
@Irishivy Having 1 partner isn't enough for most men to discard a woman. I don't know whether I'm right about you or not. I know what I BELIEVE about you, but I really don't care, all I'm saying is that starting off an answer by saying your number is nobody's business gives you away more than you think.
Some people would think your past is sexy as much as your future.
Think what you want. You have no idea. I’m done with this. I have better things to do. I don’t come here to argue. Good luck.
@Man what? You can’t know through her personality and behavior unless she is flirting with other men in front of you. If that was the case that would be very obvious.
@Irishivy Good luck to you as well.
@Coolgirl235 Read the Take.
@Man I think I just summed up what your take is going to be about so no thanks
@Coolgirl235 Lmfao! You decided before you even saw it. Okay lol.
Yea cause there is literally no other way unless you are a wizard.
@Coolgirl235 Omg I swear you need to read it before coming to that conclusion.
It’s the truth tho lol 👌.
Honestly if the only way you can find yourself desirable is to lie about your body count, maybe the problem has less to do with how many you slept with, and how insecure you are about it.
She basically says "Im riding the cock carrousel for 30 years and it is men's fault that I can't be accepted for the sex object I am."
Sluts are good for a pump-and-dump. They're not who you take home to meet mom, nor settle down with to start a family. They're unreliable - other than for a roll in the hay.
Just be clear about what they really are - calls 'em as ya sees 'em.
No, I genuinely hate sluts and being sexually experienced and being slutty are two different things.
Also very true.
I don’t hate them I just get mad if they pretend or say they are not if they are like if they sleep around own it PLEASE don’t lie
I wouldn't say hate, but I don't feel I'm personally capable of trusting someone who sleeps around
Relationship wise it makes me feel like they're going to cheat but that might very well be my own insecurities
Have you slept around?
@Coolgirl235
No I've only had sex with two people and both times i was with dating them for 3-4 months
👌👌
The only men who hate sluts, are the men that struggle to get laid
No. Men genuinely hate sluts because it’s immoral and disgusting behavior.
Immoral to you. Not to everyone. Using the word slut to jamb your morality down somebody else’s throat is repulsive
N what about when men are sluts? Women don’t hate them?
Anonymous I see. Typical. Just because a woman has slept with a certain amount of men doesn't mean she's a "slut." You don't know every woman, and who are you to judge? And who are you to speak for every man or woman?
And morals are abstract concepts that only applies in the mind. That being said, it isn't law. It's based off personal perspective. One person's morals doesn't have to match yours for them to be "non disgusting" and "good" people.
"Men genuinely hate sluts because it’s immoral and disgusting behavior" wait so there is proof good women exist.
Windnowsmyname. You need help. Really you are so bitter
@Philyouup wait im bitter for liking what someone said? also since when what you said ever became my reality, if i need help then i wouldn't be a guru sitting 39% of mho while most sit at 12-21% plus back up what you say dont make statements man, come on bruh.
Some sluts down voted your opinion. I agree with you.
@windknowsmyname. My apologies, I miss read your post. Your were quoting the Anon, not making a statement.
@Philyouup yeah yeah bruh yeah yeah come at bruh... oh.. okay. sweeet!!😁 yay!!
I’m not. I’m a man whore myself so I got no business judging there.
Well ex man whore. I’ve recently decided to reform my behavior.
I want a stable relationship and a family, all these sluts are women that are already void to me. Thats frustrating, there's always less and less good women available.
Meh my wife before getting with me slept with like 30 guys it doesn't bug me at all
And personally I like a lady outside of the bedroom and a freek in the bedroom
That's one opinion, but think it's more about control. People who feel like their lives are out of control often seek to control others. Women, histrically, are on the losing side of this.
Losing side of what?
Control of what?
They are in denial, but it isn't about arousal. It is denial that it makes them feel insecure.
I'm not, the thought of all that turns me on honestly sometimes, but honestly I could never get into anything serious with a promiscuous woman, or would ever care to
Maybe cucks are aroused knowing a woman has been with lots of other guys
Aren’t you a slut yourself tho? I’ve seen the different things that you’ve said, I might be wrong but I think you are.
And I think you must be that Anon from my last question😉
So I am right. Typical hypocrite male.
Not sure what makes me a hypocrite exactly.
You refer to these girls as sluts/hoes but I bet my bottom toe you don’t refer to yourself that way. N you think women don’t dislike guys that sleep around too don’t u?
When I call them "sluts" I use that word just because that's how to identify with people, even though in my real life I never use that word and feel like it's really overused. I just refer to them as women who've slept with a lot of men.
Interestingly enough I personally do consider myself to be something of a manwhore. And, no, I don't think guys with a body count bother women as much as men are bothered by women with a high number.
It doesn’t matter what you think cause it’s true, there are many polls on here that prove it is, I’ve even did one myself. Go tell a woman you have slept around and ask her on date n see how that goes. I just hope you can take rejection well.
Polls on a website are intriguing, but still not enough. In real life many women don't care about a guy's body count especially if she thinks he's good looking and wants her turn with him too. I've known guys on my job who banged multiple co-workers and none of them cared about who he slept with, they just wanted their turn.
You say that but you just did a poll on here yourself. N how about you go ask this in real life then? People already did tho, go look it up. Most women said they would rather date a virgin. N yea we are using him and passing him around as we know he is a hoe already what’s wrong with that?
I would have sex with a guy who is a slut that looks good but I wouldn’t date him. Me and other girls I know think the same way, but some of them wouldn’t date nor have sex with him.
So then you prove exactly what I'm saying.
🤔how? We wouldn’t date them.
First you try to tell me how women wouldn't want a man who's slept around and how you've done polls to prove it, and then you come out and tell me how you would want your turn with a hot guy who's a slut. You contradict yourself.
And I don't know what info you're reading but most women do not want virgin guys.
Yea they wouldn’t date them. Some of them if not a lot will have sex with them only if they are good and hot tho. What are you not understanding 😂? N yea the dude has to look really good tho n he has to be really good as well otherwise I wouldn’t have sex with that hoe.
@Manon you are wrong when you say most women wouldn’t prefer virgins. They would. I just did a poll about this not too long ago too.
@Coolgirl235 Your poll is a tiny fraction of the situation. Maybe it's not a problem for girls of your age range but most women my age and older are not open to wanting virgin guys. I too have asked them as well.
1. I did multiple polls of this so it’s not a tiny friction. 2. People have done multiple surveys of this on YouTube and other sites in real life and all most answers came out the same. They would prefer a virgin. 3. Women your age probably don’t as you are older and no offense it would be questionable and weird if a Guy was 30+ and a virgin without religious reasons. <<it would be weird for a 30+woman to be a virgin as well. Most guys that age wouldn’t want a virgin either. However, for girls 25 and under, they would prefer a virgin. An older lady who was still a Virgin would prefer one as well. From what I’ve seen anyway, guys don’t really like virgins especially if they themselves have had sex already.
@Coolgirl235 Then you prove what I was saying. For younger women maybe that's not a problem but the broader spectrum of older women carries more weight than those polls. I don't care what younger women want or what they think. I care about the age group of women I'm in and older.
Fuckboys always trying to think somebody wants to date them because they are hoes. Smh.
Dude you are generalizing way too much. Hot women in your age group and older probably think the same, uglies and average looking girls are willing to settle more.
Nah, this just sounds like someone that has no self control and is trying to justify immoral behavior.
Oh I'm not trying to justify it. I'm just saying.
no I think guys may find it repulsive some may like them just to get a nut but would never see them as wifey material
That "hate" comes from evolutionary biology, move a couple hundred thousands years ago and if you wanted your offspring to survive you nedeed a woman that would stay with you, the more guys she slept with the likely she is to stay put