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It's been over a week and my boyfriend is still ignoring me after a fight even on my birthday? Is this really just jealousy? (Page 2)
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Tell him that you want to know why he's ignoring you and if he doesn't respond it's probably a good idea to tell him what ever else you want that you feel isn't working out or something along those lines. Just speak your mind and let him know what's up
But her mind is that she wants him back and she wants to be able to touch other men. How do you get to be that blind?
OK but if he's gonna ignore her on her birthday of all days then she needs to speak up. That's all I was saying. Didn't say she couldn't have him back
I've been in reverse situations with women. It doesn't help one bit - SHE was a cheater, SHE got offended over something trivial I had done (with no intention of cheating on her whatsoever) - and she was the cruellest piece of work you could think of.
And guess what - as excruciatingly painful as it was for me - it exists, it isn't illegal - she was just being a bitch (her own words afterwards) - and no one ever got anything good out of it = just pain for me because she was vindictive.
This boy could be similar. Being male doesn't preclude one from being a bitch. It's an outlier in most cultures, but it exists.
True. TBH he should listen to what she has to say though and understand how she feels and why she feels that way. But at the same time she should also understand how he feels about it and maybe it would have been a better idea to ask or at least tell him about the situation first and then see where it led too
My moms boyfriend is childish and exactly just like that. Couldn’t be me I’d break up with you. Avoiding on your birthday is messed up
How does she handle it or what does she do when he acts up like this?
I don’t have a good relationship with her but when I lived there she just took out her anger and hurt on others because of his actions. That’s the definition of a toxic and eventually abusive relationship. He acts up all the time she just puts up with it.
No it’s his ego and also lack of respect. Be careful, ask yourself if it’s the good one.
... ... ... 😑😒 He sounds really petty.. but I guess I would be mad too. If I saw my boyfriend doing that to a girl.
He sounds really childish though. Controlling maybe?
Guys really try to rub it in. It's possible that he felt disrespected. Or the guy you were cozy with rubbed that incident in his face.
I would react same.
Yeah the other guy told him that when he stopped by his office...
That's too much. I would have felt humiliated.
Presumably your plan is to braid that guy's pubic hairs next, and then send you dear boyfriend a photo - and wonder why he isn't contacting you?
I'd give it some time, he's likely jealous and the feeling is still looming, but with some time, he'll hopefully get over it and you can get back to your relationship.
I really hope so! I know everyones different and everyone copes differently with issues but he's making it so hard for me by ignoring me and everything you know
Honestly it's ridiculous. Or he either doesn't care about you or he's trying to see how much control he has over you. Sounds toxic and childish.
No, that's full blown severe insecurity and is a major red flag.
So he's mad at you because you braided some other guys hair? Thats very strange and a weird thing to get mad about
I have a rule of a thumb lol.
If a guy can make it to ignore you for more than 3days, he is not worth it.
A fight? I quit reading. Why in hell would you even consider fighting on your birthday?
For some reason young women these days think this is appropriate behavior. If I were him I'd dump your azz.
If you are in a relationship you shouldn't be hanging out one on one with opposite gender friends, and certainly not be doing anything with prolonged physical contact.
You have to love it how there are 5 girls who insist on their right to prolonged physical contact with other men while in a relationship. They might get laid on the side - but those relationships won't go far.
The women that are fine with what she did and are only upset at the man are either hypocritical, or they are the type to be cheaters. They are unfit for a serious relationship.
I've asked one if she'd be happy her boyfriend braided another woman's hair - she ended up blocking me. Another just deflected as 'that's not the issue here'. Sounds like wanting to get some on the side to me. I don't mind it, you just go and say it straight that's what you're after. I'd be fully expecting my woman to be significantly upset over my hair being braided by another.
@soleil2666 Yeah, I've been blocked by a few of the hypocrites on here too. Anyone decent knows that doing stuff like that isn't acceptable in an exclusive relationship. Some of them on this question sound like the typical man haters on here that blame the bad actions of the woman in this case on the man. lol
The one sensible response by a woman was by someone who also looks like she doesn't hate men (i. e. attractive so fine with men being the way they are)
Ignoring your bday? Sounds to me he was looking for an excuse just to break up with you 🤷♂️
reassure him that nothing was going on between you and the other guy, and that you just want to be back together. If he doesn't give in after that he's just trying to punish you, thats when you break up with him
Sounds like a little child having a little temper tantrum. Set an ultimatum. Start talking or you are walking out.
Do what you feel is right and best for your happiness, fight if you feel he's worth it, leave if you think it'd be best, but you can't force someone to like you, just take it slow and give him some time.
He just wants u to be commited to him , even slightest way of deviation will make him feel angry or spark a fear of losing u , u are lucky (try to break the ice and say u won't do such thing again)
Also try to make Ur situation clear why u stroked hair and say why u won't again
I'm very committed to him. He's the love of my life and he knows I'm always honest with him, he even has my password to my phone like I have 0 secrets and I never gave him a reason to not trust me.
I just don't understand why he is pushing me away like this and treating me like this. I mean its been 8 days... shouldn't be this enough? He can also be very stubborn
And what hurts even more is that he completely ignored my birthday today
I don't think the girl is in wrong here. So what she braided hair of her friend, it doesn't mean anything. No one should expect to control her life
I told him everything when I apologised, i said it was wrong and it will never happen again. That I never ever meant to hurt him and that I'm really sorry and I love him
Hope Ur problem was solved , I just shared my opinions 😅.
Maybe his the one cheating and if his not get the hell out of toxic relationship because is not healthy.
Didn't you get any answers from your last questions? Surely someone had some good advice.
I think he’s on a power trip at the moment. You’ve apologised AND reached out again. Enough is enough and too much is too fucking much. It’s your turn to start ignoring him and give him a taste of his own medicine.
Well, it does look like he got jealous and because of that he is not talking to you.
Thats fuckin dumb send him pics of you braiding other guys hair. Braid like 2 at once have one take a selfie. Send a whole load of pics like that at him.
Anyone that ignores your birthday should be cut loose
What you've written here makes me think you still don't understand what you did wrong and why he is upset, and my best guess is that is the underlying problem for him. It would be for me.
He is fucked in the head honestly
Being that jealous is cringe a lot of cringe
Ignore him and post pictures on social media of you having a good time without him and when he finally replays ignore him a little more
He's probably done with you. I bet this isn't the first incident of you flirting badly with another man.
Jealousy issues or not, this just sounds really childish and immature on his part.
FACTS 🤣
Either he A. Has a guilty conscience about something. or B. He was looking for a reason to dump you.
It sounds like he dumped you but doesn't want to say it.
He sounds like a child. You need to find someone better and who’s willing to talk it through
What did you fight over? Him keep it going past your birthday is pretty bad. I need more details before giving you advice.
He dont give a rip about you, hez tryin to get another girl and if it fails then he will respond to you... sorry to break it to you.
I believe might have to break up I believe it’s manipulation.
I think he doesn't scare of losing you and i swear he will leave you some day.
Whoever initiates I'm sorry is the winner and it will feel good
he sounds immature and childish and stubborn
He sounds betrayed to me, let down. And done with it, unless she does a complete 180
Would you behave like that towards him?
He's SUPER jealous
I'd call that possessive not jealous.
Super extra hyper possessive
I don't know, is he like trying to punish me for my behaviour?
Also holding on to anger in a grudge fashion is a bit effeminate.
Or maybe you're jealous because you haven't got a hot woman.
God no. Hot women are way more effort than they are worth.
Its just childish what he's doing and he's causing more damage with this but i don't think he realises it since he's probably so focused on himself
Why did you braid another guy's hair?
that doesn't matter
@QueenTanya Says who? The rule setter? Seems to me he is busy setting the rules here and you are all going nuts over it, commenting how acceptable it is to the femdom that he finds her behaviour unacceptable. Chastise it all you like, the guy is offended.
the guy's insecure, there's no sugar coding that. everyone knows it, including you. it's unanimous, there is no imaginary "rule setter."
@QueenTanya The fact some group has agreed what they think over someone makes zero difference to that person. Agreement of many dumb does not signify any relation to the truth - use numbers to bully or peer pressure all you want.
The guy feels betrayed, you consider it inappropriate - and mislabel it as jealousy.
Supremely dumb. Not that it affects me, it's just supremely dumb.
no need to state the obvious, everyone knows that majority does not equal truth and that our opinions won't change the fact that the boy is insecure and extremely jealous, that's common knowledge by now. my question to you is: what is the point in you asking why she braided another guy's hair? it is none of your business, it does not relate to the question nor does it matter at all.
He’s toxic leave him
Is the guy you braided the hair of, gay?
Petty cunt.
Look at how beautiful she is as well 😩 You need to leave that, get someone else who can manage a conversation with their partner. ✌🏽
Wow! That's crazy