I've been friends with this guy, we talk online, we wanted to meet. I know he is low confident has low self-esteem and is insecure. I used to like him and I think he secretly maybe likes me. He tries to "recommend" me random guys that I am talking to, that I should marry them even though I barely even know them. When I get someone, he gets jealous. When I broke up with someone, he said that most men are idiots anyway other than that he flirts with me and teases. A year ago he became mean to me because of his university he has and had problems with exams I tried to help him-he was mean to me in texts, never admitted his fault. We had a break with communicating. I initiated a contact again because I truly care for him. We talk now normally and he doesn't get mad at me anymore because he said that his best friend mentioned his bad behaviour and he now gets it, but I even told him before, I guess he didn't listen to me and just listens to his bff? Some guys were bullying me at school saying that I only have a nice a** and I told him the story. Now after six months when I said something that I am an a**woman (jokingly bcs of one vid) he said "oh but the guys told you before that you have no a** no? Just asking if it's true or not hahah" even tho they said "nice"so he didn't even remember that I was hurt by someone telling me that. He even knows that I have a bit of hair loss and he tries to tease me with that, that I am going bald and stuff like that and then always laughs. I even sent him a pic of me, everybody complimented me that I look beautiful there so I sent him that and he asked me wtf I am wearing and then I asked if he sees bald spots (jokingly) bcs he loves to tease about that and he said yeah and zoomed in on my scalp but my friends told me that there are no bald spots at all just a parting in the middle of my scalp. So I didn't get any compliment from him, only says often that I am smart or that I did well in a videogame other than that not much
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He often even pities himself or tries to put himself down, saying how unattractiv he looks and that he is not clever (even tho I think he is attractive). So I am trying to be supportive all the time, I never put him down because I know that he has a low self-esteem but I get this from him...
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