Your type of comment, make notice the type of person you are. Anyway, the world is bigger and exists science as sociology that studies that type of topic.
Yeah, I'm a pretty critical no-bullshit kind of guy. Next? And by the way don't handwave science and sociology like you're Deepak Chopra trying to sell me stuff.
Actually, society is revolving more around women and their feels. Especially when it comes to dating. Women hold most if not all the cards. Plenty of social experiments that prove that. Why do you think so many simps are trying to win their ways in the pants of women by SIMPly complimenting them constantly. Cuz they desperate lol
Because a lot of women think they men either don't want compliments or don't deserve compliments, or perhaps they're too shy to give compliments, or don't find anything complimentary about guys.
@TruthBringer True 👍🏼Nobody should be - neither male nor female - especially when it gives that person too much of an ego and yet less is expected. My point to the opinion poster here is that if the woman is “supposed to be the center of attention,” well, who puts her there? The guys complimenting her... not her problem lol Do if you disagree with it, be more reserved like most women are and don’t hammer down every girl you see with a bunch of compliments. Nothing says you guys have to make a woman the center As far as Alpha life... no worries, I realize you guys don’t live it lol
@Yads_Is_Back Very well said. I strongly believe in the 'Alpha' and 'Beta' terms because they are very effective in distinguishing types of personalities. No 'Alpha' makes a woman a center of attention. He is on this grind, doesn't give two fuck about others and knows women are a byproduct of his success, leadership and confidence. This is what women actually want. Honestly, all the pussy men of today are to blame for the inflated egos of women. They put a woman first and then bitch when a girl treats them like a second. In my personal experience, I've had a lot of success with women by not acting like they are the prize and showed them I couldn't care if they wanted me or not. These women always had simps DMing them, but they end up in bed with a guy like myself who doesn't give them more attention and validation than they deserve.
Funny story: I confronted a girl on this website for compliment fishing when posting questions such as "do you guys prefer big or small butts" while showing off her booty herself. She ignored all the simps who compliment her was investing her energy on trying to change my mind through DMing me.
@TruthBringer had the same experience. Some 39 year old asked if we would date older women and i said fuck no. Then she proceeded to Dm me for like 2 hours they to talk about benefits.
Hahaha that woman got hit by the wall and now she does anything in her power to get with a guy in order to feel young and beautiful again. I had that with older women in the gym. They just come and flirt with me. Jesus some of them don't have a filter. Shows the desperation. But who are we to judge them if dudes of our age simp a lot harder
@Yads_Is_Back Homo sapiens actually don't organize around the "alpha/beta" hierarchy system.
Even canis lupus don't.
"All of which is to say: Humans who enjoy the idea of "alpha males" might want to keep in mind that there isn't really any such thing. And to the extent the term has any meaning at all, it describes the behavior of captive, lonely creatures."
@Juxtapose Nah, I'm a biochemistry major so I know how our biological senses interfere with our psychological senses. I'm aware of all the facts, spent 4 years in university learning it. I'm also not bored enough to argue with you on this several days later. It's kinda lame that you have nothing better to do than go back and try to argue something that's days old lol Nah, I have better things to do.
But for your reference... consider that you're referencing a business site, not a science one. Also consider that it's speaking of Alpha in a physical way only - which yes, humans don't follow, thanks to our psychological interference and a more social structure, since we don't travel in packs all the time. That's where Alpha still exists in human terms, but not with the same biological definition as other species. And actually, Alpha is different for EVERY species who follows it. Oh yes. Look at taxonomy if you don't believe me. Taxonomy is a whole class in undergrad bio majors. So it still exists in our terms, we still have Alphas... but it tends to be more on the social and mixed side than just physical (which even a 5-year-old today can see). Because... There is hypergamy, and there are men who are soooo desired by women and are popular, but there are also some who just totally don't make the charts. So yes, Alphas exist but in terms that only apply to homo sapiens, since we are so different from every other species in that we have superior psychological capabilities, so therefore psych and social have to be factored in along with the physical. And that doesn't even have to be looked up or researched or gone to college for. That's an everyday experience in life - just part of life. Men are not all wanted the same way to the same degree. Wake up. So nice try. Use a broad definition of the word that doesn't even apply here (especially from a business website lol not even from a science website) to try to counter the specific way that same broad definition applies to us. You kinda made yourself look stupid lol but thanks :D nice try
@Juxtapose Or I could try to help you understand... which I just posted a link and explained in attempt to. Sorry for trying to be helpful? Lol Somebody sounds miserable and just wanting to argue today 😂 oh well. That's your lame life, not mine lol I have better stuff to do. I provided the facts. Whether you learn from it or not is up to you. But my life is not unoccupied enough to go on about something days old just because a user is miserable and needs company.
@Juxtapose Well the link specified at the bottom of the article what I said - that yes, there is a standard and some guys are at the top and that this is what is considered Alpha for our species. You were trying to use a more broad definition of the word knowing it’s not specific to us to try to disagree with me point of a guy being an Alpha. So if you agree with the link, then I’m glad you agree with me 😊
@Juxtapose No. Read the bottom of the article again or look around at the men who are significantly very desired and popular among females. Notice the differences.
@Juxtapose So you skipped over the social part? If it was just physical then everything we just debated would be pointless 😂 For some reason I get the feeling you’re being purposely stubborn lol
@Yads_Is_Back Social aspects can differ a lot due to culture, it's really messy, subjective and not as universal as the physical aspects. Hence why I tend to avoid it.
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Probably bc we have more to offer than our looks and usually women only have their looks and sexual deeds to offer🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
I definitely compliment men if there is one to be given
I don’t like to do it too often because I am afraid of coming off as if I’m interested or desperate.
Because is something social, I mean we grew up in a society where men are in charge of it.
It is so reductive and stupid to think women have had no influence over culture this whole time.
Your type of comment, make notice the type of person you are. Anyway, the world is bigger and exists science as sociology that studies that type of topic.
😂😂😂 and because if men are in charge they get no compliments. Makes sense.
You should try to think bevor writing.
Yeah, I'm a pretty critical no-bullshit kind of guy. Next? And by the way don't handwave science and sociology like you're Deepak Chopra trying to sell me stuff.
😂😂😂😂
Actually, society is revolving more around women and their feels. Especially when it comes to dating. Women hold most if not all the cards. Plenty of social experiments that prove that. Why do you think so many simps are trying to win their ways in the pants of women by SIMPly complimenting them constantly. Cuz they desperate lol
I complimented my ex about the same as he complimented me.
Complimenting strangers usually ends up getting hit on so I avoid it unless it's a friend or someone I'm interested in.
Because a lot of women think they men either don't want compliments or don't deserve compliments, or perhaps they're too shy to give compliments, or don't find anything complimentary about guys.
Men usually don’t seem to care when you compliment them so you just never think to do it.
I can't vote on this... I compliment my man daily and often.
Because women are all take no give and when you stop taking they start saying why? Then it goes to you're so selfish.
The fact 3 guys like this and 1 girl dislikes it clearly displays the issues at hand that girl refuse to accept.
I compliment men when they do things worth complimenting. Most dudes don’t actually do much.
This is probably about looks.
MosT woMAN dOnT DO MUch
That is true we are a waste lol
@6suejsjsj I mean women do tend to try a lot harder in the looks department, but I wasn’t specifically talking about looks.
The guys who voted guys don't deserve compliments are just gay
They don’t want to inflate his ego but I think they should be complimented more if they’re together
Because the female is supposed to be the center of attention. Which is fucking dumb.
I guess you’ve never lived the Alpha life
That's explains it, alpha/beta bullshit... of course
@Yads_Is_Back "alpha life" rofl
That's why you never put them as the center of attention. Their pussies ain't made out of Gold you know
@TruthBringer True 👍🏼Nobody should be - neither male nor female - especially when it gives that person too much of an ego and yet less is expected.
My point to the opinion poster here is that if the woman is “supposed to be the center of attention,” well, who puts her there? The guys complimenting her... not her problem lol Do if you disagree with it, be more reserved like most women are and don’t hammer down every girl you see with a bunch of compliments. Nothing says you guys have to make a woman the center
As far as Alpha life... no worries, I realize you guys don’t live it lol
@Yads_Is_Back Very well said. I strongly believe in the 'Alpha' and 'Beta' terms because they are very effective in distinguishing types of personalities. No 'Alpha' makes a woman a center of attention. He is on this grind, doesn't give two fuck about others and knows women are a byproduct of his success, leadership and confidence. This is what women actually want. Honestly, all the pussy men of today are to blame for the inflated egos of women. They put a woman first and then bitch when a girl treats them like a second. In my personal experience, I've had a lot of success with women by not acting like they are the prize and showed them I couldn't care if they wanted me or not. These women always had simps DMing them, but they end up in bed with a guy like myself who doesn't give them more attention and validation than they deserve.
Funny story: I confronted a girl on this website for compliment fishing when posting questions such as "do you guys prefer big or small butts" while showing off her booty herself. She ignored all the simps who compliment her was investing her energy on trying to change my mind through DMing me.
@TruthBringer had the same experience. Some 39 year old asked if we would date older women and i said fuck no. Then she proceeded to Dm me for like 2 hours they to talk about benefits.
Hahaha that woman got hit by the wall and now she does anything in her power to get with a guy in order to feel young and beautiful again. I had that with older women in the gym. They just come and flirt with me. Jesus some of them don't have a filter. Shows the desperation. But who are we to judge them if dudes of our age simp a lot harder
@Yads_Is_Back Homo sapiens actually don't organize around the "alpha/beta" hierarchy system.
Even canis lupus don't.
"All of which is to say: Humans who enjoy the idea of "alpha males" might want to keep in mind that there isn't really any such thing. And to the extent the term has any meaning at all, it describes the behavior of captive, lonely creatures."
www.google.com/.../no-such-thing-alpha-male-2016-10%3famp
But you want to ignore me and keep using a term born from scientific illiteracy, have at it!
@Juxtapose Nah, I'm a biochemistry major so I know how our biological senses interfere with our psychological senses. I'm aware of all the facts, spent 4 years in university learning it.
I'm also not bored enough to argue with you on this several days later. It's kinda lame that you have nothing better to do than go back and try to argue something that's days old lol Nah, I have better things to do.
@Yads_Is_Back lol instead of giving me all these pathetic excuses you could have just not replied.
But for your reference... consider that you're referencing a business site, not a science one. Also consider that it's speaking of Alpha in a physical way only - which yes, humans don't follow, thanks to our psychological interference and a more social structure, since we don't travel in packs all the time.
That's where Alpha still exists in human terms, but not with the same biological definition as other species. And actually, Alpha is different for EVERY species who follows it. Oh yes. Look at taxonomy if you don't believe me. Taxonomy is a whole class in undergrad bio majors. So it still exists in our terms, we still have Alphas... but it tends to be more on the social and mixed side than just physical (which even a 5-year-old today can see).
Because... There is hypergamy, and there are men who are soooo desired by women and are popular, but there are also some who just totally don't make the charts. So yes, Alphas exist but in terms that only apply to homo sapiens, since we are so different from every other species in that we have superior psychological capabilities, so therefore psych and social have to be factored in along with the physical.
And that doesn't even have to be looked up or researched or gone to college for. That's an everyday experience in life - just part of life. Men are not all wanted the same way to the same degree. Wake up.
So nice try. Use a broad definition of the word that doesn't even apply here (especially from a business website lol not even from a science website) to try to counter the specific way that same broad definition applies to us. You kinda made yourself look stupid lol but thanks :D nice try
www.bustle.com/.../99560-is-the-alpha-male-a-myth-the-science-behind-the-concept-explained
Meant to post that for your reference. Sorry
@Juxtapose Or I could try to help you understand... which I just posted a link and explained in attempt to.
Sorry for trying to be helpful? Lol
Somebody sounds miserable and just wanting to argue today 😂 oh well. That's your lame life, not mine lol I have better stuff to do. I provided the facts. Whether you learn from it or not is up to you. But my life is not unoccupied enough to go on about something days old just because a user is miserable and needs company.
@Yads_Is_Back Relaaax lol. I'm on my way to a friend's house and your posts looks good (minus the insults). I'll reply to it later.
@Yads_Is_Back The link is about in line with what I think actually. Where's the disagreement here?
@Juxtapose Well the link specified at the bottom of the article what I said - that yes, there is a standard and some guys are at the top and that this is what is considered Alpha for our species.
You were trying to use a more broad definition of the word knowing it’s not specific to us to try to disagree with me point of a guy being an Alpha.
So if you agree with the link, then I’m glad you agree with me 😊
There's mostly fertile looking men and women that are chosen over the more aggressive ones.
"You were trying to use a more broad definition of the word knowing it’s not specific to us to try to disagree with me point of a guy being an Alpha"
So an alpha to you is a talented lay?
@Juxtapose No. Read the bottom of the article again or look around at the men who are significantly very desired and popular among females. Notice the differences.
@Yads_Is_Back Yeah, the jawline and other traits that highlight health and fertility. That's standard attractiveness. Not really "alpha".
If anything, I'd just call those people "hot". That would be a better label vs "alpha". Hot & ugly vs alpha & beta.
@Juxtapose So you skipped over the social part? If it was just physical then everything we just debated would be pointless 😂
For some reason I get the feeling you’re being purposely stubborn lol
@Yads_Is_Back Social aspects can differ a lot due to culture, it's really messy, subjective and not as universal as the physical aspects. Hence why I tend to avoid it.
E - thanks to the influence of feminism, it has become very unfashionable for women to say anything positive about men.
They're just not used to having to be initiative in that way, so they just don't naturally consider it. Maybe it just depends on the person.
Good question and thanks for asking it. It's interesting to read many females' perspectives on this.
Fi do compliment men. But I feel men use it more as a means to try and get something too.
Because modern women can't stand the thought of giving men credit for anything positive, and we have feminism to thank for that.
Because we do all the work for them so they don't appreciate shit.
Women expect the man to compliment/approach them so that’s probably why they don’t initiate first.