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I sent him a lingerie pic and he responded with this? why didn’t he get excited? (Page 3)
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Keep going. That's a green light. Maybe he'll get out of his shell once you're in front of him with that 😉
Yeah a guy you're dating this long should be super excited and immediately seeking to meet you. Not sure why he is so subdued.
☹️ tell me about. It must be my looks. I might not be his usual type? Hence the short replies
Im not sure, like why even date you then if you're not his type? You're a good looking girl and fit, so I can't really see your looks being a reason.
I think its something else, as I said previously, virgin or gay maybe.
I’ll meet up with him next week as per his request and see how it goes. If I don’t feel anything I’ll just leave it
Tbh I want a guy who will slap my arse and call me sexy. He don’t seem like that guy
It could be his shy innocent and maybe doesn't have much experience with dirty talk. She might also just want to be respectful which a lot of guys aren't these days.
God I didn't realize some of it got messed up. 🤦🏻♂️
He's being careful so you don't get the wrong idea about him. I mean he didn't want you to think he's a pervert or he's lusting over you.
He likes you. He's just not desperate or needy. Otherwise he wouldn't have asked you if you want to do something next week with him
He seems to like it a lot... just he seems to have a bit of a hidden regret that he is not there with you while wearing it.
He’s not very vocal that’s all
maybe he seems to care a lot about you so you worry too much
in his words may not be so much desire but there is a lot of love.
Like love in a beautiful chilling way not the desperate kind..
You know the saying actions speak louder than words? Meet up with him and show him a pic of you in some other different lingerie in person. Or better yet go back to yours or his and put it on. Show it to him in person. If he's still not giving a horny reaction then you have your answer.
Trust me he's just playing it cool. I seen that pic with the scibbles on it and almost choked on my soda. Trust me he's playing it cool. Be careful it seems like you have a Cerebral assassin on your hands...😂
Loool. Thank you. Most of these comments are saying that he’s probs not sexually attracted to me as he would have said “sexy” or “hot” hmm
I DM you
Maybe he was trying to be a gentleman the odds of me keeping it there would have been 25/75 Lol sorry I just like taking it further, lol
He wasn't blunt with responses.
His just about meeting up with you more then talking.
So he might not be into texting?
I think so texting can get boring. He probs likes you in person more because your energy and all that is good. Text is impersonal really. I'd say go out with him or video call cos rona you know. You'll get more that way. Hopefully..
Hard to say what's going on. Your friends might be right, or else the guy just isn't experienced enough to know that he is losing points.
Or maybe he's gay? :)
It’s just a bit weird when he is taking me out on dates and stuff. Like why waste your time if I don’t turn you on
I have a gay cousin who married a supermodel and they were together for about 10 years before they got divorced and he moved in with a guy who he live with for the next 25 years. Sometimes people are confused about their sexuality and are afraid to admit what they are.
I can tell you this. If YOU don't turn that guy on, he's not normal!
It may ne time to fire off a subtle clue. Something like... Do you like oranges? Yeah? (Or no. It doesn't matter) Wanna fuck?
If what you say is true... he is shy!
I would expect that kind of answer!
To all the guys saying he isn't sexual enough, maybe he just needs more help
He’s 23 tho and has been in relationships before. What help does he need?
Maybe he's just a little shy or isn't in the mood. Just give him time
Why would he be dating you if he wasn't attracted to you?
We’re not dating tho as he hasn’t said we’re an item. He just takes me out. Could be just friends?
Why would he just want to be friends with you. What do you do when he takes you out?
We go bowling, meals and drinks.
Anything romantic?
Is he going out with other girls?
What’s a romantic date to you? And he’s still on the dating app that I met him on but apparently I’m the only girl he’s meeting
Do you kiss and hug? anything further?
Just a peck. I don’t really like making out or being soppy in public places
It's hard to get into someone else's head. Maybe he is reserved, maybe he is gay, maybe he is not sure but why continue to see you if he doesn't like you
He could be like me and completely suck at flirting
Lol true
What did you expect from him? 🤔 I don't see any problems with his respond
“You’ve got an amazing body” or “wish I was there”
You're expecting a particular response and you didn't get it and now you're salty. Maybe you should have sent a more revealing pic. Lingerie doesn't do it for most guys. Not a basic one like that anyway.
Maybe he doesn't want to sound like a simp? 🤔
I genuinely don't understand what bothers you about the way he responded.
It wasn’t very sexual was it? Like “you look amazing” or he could have complimented my body. I don't know
Maybe I am over thinking
I'm starting to wonder if she's used to really thirsty guys responding like they never seen a bikini before lol.
But it's just text. I too would not necessarily show how much I'm sexually turned on via text. I don't know how well you know him as a person (two months isn't that long), but everyone's different in how they text and how they generally show their reactions.
Even though I'm keeping things down, my crush already knows I get quite excited around her. I mean, she doesn't hear my heartbeat, but she notices my glances.
It seems to me he is a shy person who want u but he can’t say it loudly
He probably likes it but do you want him to lose his shit over that? Many guys won’t. Don’t read anything into it. Does he get hard, does he cum, does he like being with you? If yes then no worries.