Why do I always end up attracting men who are insecure or intimidated by me? (Page 2)

Katerinar · 2021-01-09T00:34:44Z

i added a selfie because i don’t see what others see. i’ve been told my looks are in intimidating. i believe looks don’t matter to a certain extent it’s about the heart. so i’ve noticed the guys i have been attracting are super insecure or intimidated by me. whether it’s the attention i receive not on purpose, or how i act in social settings. i have self love, but i’m not boastful about it. i’m also a very strong person, i’m a leader in most aspects. i don’t deal with bs from men, and i know what i want. i feel as though i scare them or they act insecure. i am a really humble and kind person but i just never understood why sometimes i get burnt in some relationships. it’s hard to find a guy that lets me shine and i just need advice on what maybe i’m doing wrong and how to make men more at ease with me.

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Could it be that you just attract the kind of guy that only wants to use you for sex? Then when they find out they can't play games with you due to your strong personality they leave.

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That's the same with me but with women. I've bee told to a few times that maybe its because I am innocent looking and those type of women like me cause deep down they can manipulate me.

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dude you are stunning, i think thats where the intimidation comes in, looks can intimidate, simple as that

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  She’s gone she deleted that fast or got kicked out
  
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- chriscdi
  
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  sucks for her lol
  
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  Yes she was hot
  
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  indeed
  
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This post was written with linear logic in mind. you seem to have an androgenic mind. this is why you're intimidating, androgenic minds are dominant, dominance is intimidating.

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  how to make men at ease? dont. wait till you find a guy who likes dominant women, which will mean finding an extra dominant man, probably. there are submissive-type men who will find you attractive, too but you won't like them. I only know one guy besides me who is extra dominant and has a preference for dominant girls. So we're as rare as you are. sadly.
  
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- Vetis
  
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  Here's my selfie (i. imgur). com/ebF7bF5. png
  
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- KrakenAttackin
  
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  @Vetis Being a thirsty beta will not get you laid by an alpha bitch.
  
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- Vetis
  
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  @KrakenAttackin What? Im not alpha. 6ft3 and fit but who cares? I have a host of mental illnesses. Sorry you thought I was a poser.
  
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Are you very sarcastic and competitive? These are exhausting traits in white girls. Do you have a lot of " guy friends"?

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In the vast majority of cases where women think they intimidate men, it's not really intimidation at all.

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You just need to keep looking your guy is out there. It is more that most guys are boys and not really men; than you are attracting guys who are intimidated by you.

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Ah yes, Sim Syndrome. I also have it. I used to wear a skin suit too

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The juice isn't worth the squeeze and your too Self-Absorbed to make a relationship work.

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I do so loathe transparent fake humility.

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