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Girls how would you feel if your guy freaked out over spiders or other bugs or even mice? Would you lose attraction for them?
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Nope my guy hates spiders they dont bother me.. he's the one to protect me so much its nice to return the favor! Same time if I wasn't around and it was him and his mom whose also scared of spiders hed step up abd do what needs to be done to protect his mom.. so even tho he's scared, screams and says every swear word in the book he can force himself to take care of business.. I admire him!
Eh, only maybe a bit. But then I’d realise how irrational it is to lose attraction over something as small as that. I mean, I’m allowed to be scared of spiders, so why can’t he?
I have like a phobia of small creatures that run fast, they reaaally creepy me out but when they needed me to deal with it cuz they're women and I'm the man and stuff, I don't know like my man protecting senses got activated or something and I just went over and had the job with ease, and I did it a few times after that
how are you with bigger threats? think you would stand your ground?
Bigger threats like what?
like a person who wants to beat you up?
Yeah I think i can handle it.. You know i got attacked once before with full force punches to the head.. Didn't even pass out.. And after doing stitches on the face the doctor said wow I just noticed they didn't give you any anesthesia and you didn't say anything lol
@Prettysammie here you go miss, a man who will defend you from major threats but has a little phobia about bugs and things :P
Lol 😅
He’s shown he can overcome his phobia. Not run away screaming and waiving his arms. So I don’t see how this counts as an example.
@Prettysammie no its pretty relevant because it shows that someone can have a phobia of one ting but be absolutely ok handling a bigger threat. You just like to attribute one instance where a guy might not to be attractive or manly and assumed he's like that with everything...
Thank you for letting me know my feelings are wrong. How could I be so stupid? I’m now totally attracted to guys freaked out by bugs. Especially if they make a high pitched squeal and waive their arms running around the room. Just thinking about it gets me totally hot and bothered.
@Prettysammie feel however you wish. It makes you a bad person though to feel that way. Yup
They will even if they say they womt loose attraction. Women expect men to protect and provide and showing fear of something so small doesn't reassure a woman that you can protect her from something/someone bigger than her or you. A fearful man isn't confident in his capacity to thwart dangerous situations.
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Absolutely not. I wouldn't lose attraction nor would I make fun of them in any way.
We all have our phobias.
My first husband was like that... And no that's not why divorced him... LolWas afraid of mice but not afraid to be physically abusive... It's the abusive part that was the problem not being afraid of mice. We can't always decide what we're afraid of, but we can choose to face those fears... I'm afraid of needles, but still get shots when I need them...
Its oddly the cutest most adorable thing ever!! Guys here are so masculine and brave but when it comes to spiders, mice, snakes or deer, they run like hell and sometimes even jump on tabletops. Its too cute 😂
But like whos gonna kill it if he doesn't? Shol ain't gone be me cause i’m the first one in the tabletop 😂
@Bellatris no lol. My ex used to walk to my house at night and he claims he got chased by an angry deer 🤣 we live in the countryside and its definitely lots of deer in anearby field
Fuck I'm fine around most things but wasps scare me. I haven't seen one inside since I started dating my girlfriend so that's lucky. But I don't think she'd be a jerk about it. I've done a few unmanly things around her before and she's not a jerk about it.
I guess we would both be freaking out and running around like idiots. I don't do spiders and I know I'm much bigger then they are so I can't effing blame him. But I'd probably tease him about his manhood though so I don't have to be the one to kill it. Tbh I would offer up a bj where he can cash in anytime and anyplace he wants if that didn't work.. I have an even harder time knowing the spider is still alive but missing.. seriously no shame.. the mother effer has to die!😂
ngl i might lose a little bit of the attraction just because i like stereotypically masculine guyss🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ buuut more importantly, if he’s afraid whose going to kill the spider? because i’m alrdy up on the stool shrieking myself😂😵😵
any guy like that is a courageless nutless girlie boy, lets face it
I am absolutely terrified of spiders... Said it on some other posts. I live in Missouri in the country..
So brown recluses, huge wolf spiders.. The Missouri tarantula that can jump up to 4ft on flat ground. Are all just a a lot of creepy way to venomous nopes that i will straight run away from! 😂
Spiders and women are like men and penis size. Always over estimating how big they are.
I understand fear but at some point just get over it. That goes for both men and women.
I can’t yell or scream. But I walk around like a bird with my arms raised a little and get help from my cat. Last time I saw a spider I had Nala eat it... and I enjoyed watching. In my head I was cussing it out. Something like, “YOU CAME INTO THE WRONG HOUSE YOU LIMP DICK BASTARD”
Then I play that scene from Godzilla vs Kong when Godzilla laughs. HGE HGE HGE HGGEEeeehh
(In my head)
You should give those people a middle leg since spiders don’t have hands
I don’t mind.. we can kill it together. It’s actually really funny. I don’t like when a guy is too uptight because it kills the mood and we can have fun with one another. I like to kill a bug and pretend I’m
going to put it on you 😂😂😂.
I'll get rid of the damn thing if he's too afraid. They're only bugs, lol
Yeah but still...
that first picture is So funny, cracking me up still!
i had a boyfriend that did not want to be around roaches, well no one does.. right...
anyway, i took care of it.
If its a really big spider I guess we're calling pest control. If it's a small spider I'll just catch it and put in outside. Doesn't matter if you're afraid or not if girls can go crying when a bug is near so can you. Wouldn't question it a bit nor would I lose interest.
Lol, I would video tape him screaming and sell it to Americans funniest home videos for money - We could make a youtube channel called “The Screaming Antlers.”
I'd tell him to man the fuck up and stop being an embarrassment to his family
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Naaaw, I would fine it humorous. My brother has arachnophobia. So, he'll join the club with him. Too big men running 🏃♂️ 🏃 from spiders! 😁😆😅🤣😂
I wouldn't lose interest in him. I would find it unusual but it's normal to be afraid of these creatures. No need to be ashamed.
I don't mind insects. My wife always gets me to squish them. I don't mind mice either. I do not like fish. I like to go fishing but don't like to hold them while removing the hook.
I be concerned for our future, because now we both scared of them, so won't be long before the spiders have taken control of our place and throw us out😔
Well to be honest I never got scared from any bugs or spiders, I don't even want to kill them. I usually take them with a cloth or tissue and get them out of window.
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