Is it normal to want to return to him after 6 weeks of no contact?

[anonbrunette99]

we had gone periods of not talking before but the longest we had gone was about 5 or 6 weeks so I guess if I keep it up this would have been the longest we have ever gone without speaking since we met.
he truly didn’t respect me and stuff but I can’t get him off my mind... I loved him but he doesn’t believe that I loved him. part of me wants to text him but I know he expects me to come back like I always do every single time without fail and every time I go back after distancing myself from him because he isn’t respecting me he ends up treating me even worse than he did before. so I know if I hit him up I’ll just be setting myself up for being mistreated. Anyone else been in a similar position?
my friends tell me just fully let go and see other people like he probably is doing but I feel bad seeing other guys when I’m still stuck on someone else

[Guardian45]

Oddly, that's how my marriage went. She ALWAYS mistreated me. I LOVED her. She never budged. She was NEVER wrong. I ALWAYS forgave her and went back to her. It was ALWAYS my fault. Until it wasn't and I DIDN'T LOVE her anymore. So I left her for good!

Its NOT normal, but ONLY you can decide that.

[In_Trance]

Jesus, you're 6 weeks removed! Move on. Find someone new

[anonbrunette99]

It’s hard to throw away a years worth of history though but you’re right it’s about time I let that shit go

[In_Trance]

you're not throwing anything away. You spent the time and learned a lot. Carry that with you.

[Anonymous]

It is if you miss his dick that much!