Why can’t guys just be honest about how they feel towards you? (Page 2)
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i didn't read that entire text but here's 2 pointers:
how people feel changes.
people sometimes don't know. so you can't be "honest" if you don't know.
Tbh you don't sound like you were clearly communicating your feelings either. Dropping hints? Just tell him how you feel and what you're looking for. If he's dismissive then move on.
Be more patient, if you truly care about him, ignore him until he is ready to reach out to you. He asked you to give him time, give him as much time while you focus on enjoying your own life.
Very rarely will men tell a woman that she doesn't meet his standards. However, by his failure to pursue, he has given plenty of hints; you just refuse to accept them.
Because some girls are full of too much drama and they want to avoid the drama or get into arguments.
Same reason why girls can't be honest about how they feel about guys.
Thank. You.
i didn't know guys was afraid to show how they feel, i always express my true feelings always, i thought only faggots was afraid to say the truth
Why didn't you friend zone him?
What made you keep liking him in a more than friends way?
Have you guys been sexual together?
We always got along more as friends.. he even made a point to tell to tell me we’ve connected now so I just assumed he wanted to go with the flow and take it slow and to be honest I felt the same so was fine with that.
We have been sexual but not had full on sex. Every time we meet up we end up making out for hours and there’s definitely chemistry there. We’ve had oral sex but that’s it.
He has serious concerns about being in a relationship with you.
Also, as you are 30+ you probably have an edge of desperation which is not attractive to men.
That’s correct ! Also I wish to add it’s not good to wait for more than 2 months to know your status with a guy. It usually takes 8 dates to know whether y’all wish to proceed and have committed relationship. It’s the hard truth in dating that’s why no point on focusing just on one guy. Moreover you haven’t told us anything about his past relationship or the whole context of his life.
You expect honesty from any human? You silly human.
We are terrified of rejection whi h is why usually don't make the first move.
I don't get the relation to the question.
He said he has stuff to figure out either wait or don't wait what's the complication?
Sometimes guys are but women don't accept it or really listen when we do
I hear that. I made it clear I wouldn’t make it difficult for him. If he’s not feeling it then that’s perfectly fine with me I’d just like to be told so I know what I’m doing if you know what I mean.
They are some guys that only want sex and will say or do anything to get it. They are un emotional and can sepreate feelings from it
Their brains are wired to lie first and tell the truth second
People often say i'm too honest 😂
I seen women 🚺 play games like this also
Why can’t women be honest about anything?
No one wants to be rejected directly
I ran into this problem with women.
Move on