So, I was talking to this guy this winter. Nothing special. We just met a couple times and made out. He was all sweet and was giving me lot of attention until I screwed up everything.
he liked his "ex's" Instagram photo. I started overthinking immediately
I was responding him hours later.My texts was short and dry.I was going offline when he was online because I wanted him to think that I didn't want to respond him (such a dumb). He thought I had lost interest in him. He told me this himself. I denied it because I was so into him. I just was 'hurt' lol
We met again to 'clarify the situation.'In short, I acted in such a way that I am sure, he thought I was no longer interested.It was during that period that I noticed he started behaving like me. Going offline while I was online but still answering me.Then I started thinking that he was no longer interested in me and tried to ignore me. So I told him about my thoughts couple times. Sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a very bad ways :(He assured me that I was wrong. He told me that if he did not write every day, it did not mean that he had lost interest.
I will not go into details and briefly say that this guy and I stopped communicating after New Year. No conflict. He wished me a Happy New Year I did the same and has not written to each other since.
I was in HELL.I thought that I ruined everything so I texted him after 3 weeks. In short, he told me that he didn't like that I complained about him becoming passive and not giving me enough attention. and he thought that this would happen again. I said that his position was clear and stopped texting again.
BUT he was behaving the same for 4 months.+ He was trying to get my attention with various behaviors. He texted me again.but didn't work. Couple days later I texted him first. Didn't work out again. And now he is still doing the same( He did exactly like so while I was writing this lol).
he liked his "ex's" Instagram photo. I started overthinking immediately
I was responding him hours later.My texts was short and dry.I was going offline when he was online because I wanted him to think that I didn't want to respond him (such a dumb). He thought I had lost interest in him. He told me this himself. I denied it because I was so into him. I just was 'hurt' lol
We met again to 'clarify the situation.'In short, I acted in such a way that I am sure, he thought I was no longer interested.It was during that period that I noticed he started behaving like me. Going offline while I was online but still answering me.Then I started thinking that he was no longer interested in me and tried to ignore me. So I told him about my thoughts couple times. Sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a very bad ways :(He assured me that I was wrong. He told me that if he did not write every day, it did not mean that he had lost interest.
I will not go into details and briefly say that this guy and I stopped communicating after New Year. No conflict. He wished me a Happy New Year I did the same and has not written to each other since.
I was in HELL.I thought that I ruined everything so I texted him after 3 weeks. In short, he told me that he didn't like that I complained about him becoming passive and not giving me enough attention. and he thought that this would happen again. I said that his position was clear and stopped texting again.
BUT he was behaving the same for 4 months.+ He was trying to get my attention with various behaviors. He texted me again.but didn't work. Couple days later I texted him first. Didn't work out again. And now he is still doing the same( He did exactly like so while I was writing this lol).
- So WHY is he doing this?
- Is he avoiding me? if yes, then why?
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I think its clear that everything is done between us and I am not going to start texting or annoying him. So I see no point in his behaviors.
I am still thinking about him every single day. I can't forget him. My world still spins around him and I don't know how it is possible. I just saw him couple times!!! like what the hell.
What is your thoughts about this situation?
Did he like me? Or was into me?
I am still thinking about him every single day. I can't forget him. My world still spins around him and I don't know how it is possible. I just saw him couple times!!! like what the hell.
What is your thoughts about this situation?
Did he like me? Or was into me?
