You either trust him or you don’t — that’s really all it comes down to. If you have trust issues then you should address and work on them rather than be this way to him. It’s not fair to make him pay for how other men betrayed your trust in the past. You should get a handle on this behavior because if you dont stop with the unreasonable suspicions, questions etc then you will lose him by being overbearing. Like you probably don’t even realize how frustrated he is bc he constantly has to prove himself to you, even after all this time. The man can’t even be on his phone without you on his shoulder prying and wondering if he will cheat. It’s just a lot of insecurity on your end and you shouldn’t want to treat him that way. This is why I say to address your trauma, and work on healing so you can move past it and stop treating your boyfriend like he’s about to cheat.
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It sounds to me like there's nothing to worry about. If there was, he'd do everything he could to keep you from seeing his phone. The fact that he lets you look means he isn't worried about it - so either he's a sociopath, or he has done nothing wrong that he has to worry about you finding out about.
I think you have no reason not to trust him so stop with the phone surveillance. If he's gonna cheat he's gonna cheat. Acting like an insecure psycho is not how to keep a guy.
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