Is it weird that I’ve never seen my boyfriend cry before not even in movies (I’ve just seen him almost tear up)? (Page 2)
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Because women are so judgmental, for the survival of our species men have had to be stronger, not just stronger than women ever could, but stronger than they can even understand.
Why so surprised when we've always been hardwired that way?
I watch too many kdramas I guess
Personally I find it hard to cry, even when I'd like to. I think many men are the same in this regard
I guess I'm a little weird bc I also find it difficult to cry even if I want to. I feel like I have to force it
@Cherry234 it’s not weird that people can’t cry. Everyone’s got different emotions. Some express it by crying while some don’t express it by crying.
@Cherry234 Same. I saw a video the other day of a 9yr old girl who dived Infront of a car to save two infant girl but she died in the process of saving them... I forced myself to drop tears jus because I thought I should.. even tho I didn't really feel like it at all... Is that gay as fuck? Lol. Maybe I should only let tears come out if they want to (never). Instead of forcing them lol
@Qestyinsanity No that's not gay lol. I'm sure you felt very sad about her death. But it's difficult to force tears. Both of my grandmothers passed away and I was sad about their deaths but I didn't cry
You're both thirsty, she said basically the same thing I did but you only reply to her 😂
Because we are men
To quote Måneskin "I'm crying all my tears and that's f***ing pathetic"
Well I hope you wasn't walking out of the bathroom
Lmao I mean pulling up his zipper
That’s not weird most men only cry over a lost loved one or one of his serious long-term relationships has ended.
Men know better than to cry in front of their girlfriend or wife.
We don't like to control ourselves but the world forces us to. I strongly believe instead of telling boys not to cry, it's better to teach them not to be a reason to cry.
Maybe he just isn't the type to get emotional during movies. Unlike me lol i sob often
Not everyone is a cryer, some people don’t like to cry and some people simply can’t
It shows a sign of weakness and sensitivity!
Which men are not supposed to have?
So we are taught as young boys.
We cry in solitary. Only in exceptional situations, we cry in public or in presence of someone.
The last time I cried was six years ago when I was 15. That's so common in men
Not weird pretty common. Provide him with non judgmental space where he can cry if he has to. Ask him, Babe, what do you think of guys who cries?
Thanks for like!
Yah we can! But you scratch my motorcycle I’ll cry like a baby.
It was the way he was raised. It was pounded into him.
Why don't you ask him?
I did
I don’t get it either
We've been taught that men don't cry.
My dad said men who cry shows weakness. Guys have to be strong.
As an emotional guy, I couldn't do it