Is it true men tell women to "calm down" when they are freaking out because the man doesn't know what else to say? (Page 2)

[lsksni]

I say that when I don't know what to say. Although I know that I shouldn't talk about the matters I don't know about.

[zagor]

Yeah, who wants to be standing there with a woman freaking out, especially in public.

[WowwGirl]

Understand

[Massageman]

They need to see Mark Gungor's "Tale of Two Brains" on YT for some insight.

[siegetiming]

what else are we supposed to say? I had NO clue saying "calm down" softly was offensive now. God everything is so confusing for no reason

[Snakeyes7]

100% especially if it's their first time. What I have seen work was assure that everything's OK and come up with a plan if it's something specific.

[Xoirwinkan]

Possibly, but a lot of men hate and have a low tolerance for 'drama'.

[WowwGirl]

They are screwed

[mikkun_]

some guys genuinely dont know how to handle that situation. most guys, however, theyre just gaslighting. period.

[captain_voidwalker]

We usually tell you to calm down because you are making a mountain out of a mole hill.

[Siddeunusual]

Yes I think it's true and No web don't know that it irritates you

[888theGreat]

women tend to be hysterical about things that are not that important.

[admles]

Not me, but I can’t have a discussion with someone who’s not calm and rational.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

If I don’t know what to say I say nothing (as in I don’t speak)

[tomtom05131]

Sometimes, yes. If it happens a lot that she’s emotional then it is just frustration

[Open2It]

Or perhaps it's the nicest thing we can say at that moment...

[WowwGirl]

Maybe

[elizamichale1]

yea i think thats true

[rienna888]

Them being insensitive

[Justneedtokno]

Yes it’s an awkward situation for them

[Likes2drive]

Yeah because they don’t know what to say

[Finchie40]

No, You are Overreacting 😋

[WowwGirl]

That's bad t9

[WowwGirl]

Too.

[Finchie40]

LOL I heard it’s get a girl to stop yelling and makes her think why she was yelling lol

[WowwGirl]

Not this one

[Finchie40]

You’re overreacting ❤️

[msc545]

Nobody likes drama or hysterics

[WowwGirl]

They can always be gay

[jennifer_bloom]

It’s possible they do that.

[TomGarand]

Why is that irritating?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, these are words some of us guys use

[ChiPaPa]

I've only ever said, "I'm here for you"

[Pterodon]

I don’t think I’ve ever said that

[WowwGirl]

Impressive

[anylolone]

Nope, it's because it's the right thing to say.

[NightOwl8801]

I second what @OlderAndWiser says about this.

[In_Trance]

I think that's accurate

[Djaay]

No... how would actually make any sense?

[Slayerrrrrrr]

Calm down

[WowwGirl]

Ass lol

[Slayerrrrrrr]

I said calm down woman 😂

[Better_off_here]

most of what men say only make things worst.

[musicloverr8]

Lol probably

[blondfrog]

lol hahaha

[Jouth]

woah, calm down

[WowwGirl]

Sounds about right

[Jouth]

yeah but you need to calm down first

[WowwGirl]

Never

[Jouth]

typical

[EnglishEuropean]

haha yeah.

[TallAnon]

That's pretty common

[EaterPeter]

I guess

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope not true

[rushyedke]

That's hell trueeeee