@Alwayreckles93 calling old men creepy isn't going to work on anyone. 99% of men from ages 10 to 100 have to approach girls they like. That means they have developed a filter that prioritizes youth. Young girls are easier to impress. theyre less disillusioned. And they usually look better. But even if they dont, they're still more romantic for the reason I mentioned
Always reckles93..."women your age are all Karen's " So this means your quickly going to be a Karen and that younger women are better till that age group of karenhood. I guess you answered this question for all the on here and the younger women as well.
I don't care what he does with younger women, why I said this is because it's weird when he does this with my friends. And trust me they were grossed out as well. Dude ruined one of my friendships for me. When they told me what he talked about with them, I felt sick hence I said that.
Man + man : its ok love is love both are adults they are free , why they bother you
Man and woman : both adult , they aren't harming anyone, both love each other ( not talking about money sex dirty relationships ) , suddenly love isn't love omg gross
>> People fear what society say about them , society say ok we are ok , society say not ok then not ok , use your head for 1 min make your opinion
But i dont understand why people keep saying younger women can't have something in common with older. I've had lots in common with older dudes more than younger. But at the end of the day, i jusr prefer to be with someone close in age. Older men are closer to my parents age. Thats a turnoff
What you're looking at is natural muscle. Not steroids. That's what I want too. I'm working towards that body type. Not quite all the way there, but I'm close.
But what about full heads of hair, and deep voices? If you like those then you do enjoy some of the positive aspects of a Chad:P
@DizzyDesii, if both, elderly man and young woman are happily living in their relationship, what problem you got with this match? You do as you wish, let other live their own way
I have never heard such B. S. I know several married couples, the women in their 20's, guys 50 and above, and they are much happier than, married ones in their 20's, and married ones in their 30's all about same ages. And most of them marriages do not last., as they are not happy. The OLD & YOUNG are so much happier together, and love and learn together. The same age marrieds most are far from being happily married. Just my observation from being friends with both, same ages and OLD & YOUNG ages.
@SISWITHBROTHER2 and i never said they couldnt get along. I said I've had lots in common with all ages but still prefer same age and find huge gaps creepy. So please carry on with your day
well in the Bible, Torah, and Koran it's pretty clear that yes, men like younger women lol. Like Abraham, King David, and Mohammad had many wives that were ummmm shall we say not legal by today's standards? XD
No she was really good to me! Seriously like the people who've had some experience like KNOW they get it. She tried to be helpful but she got bored when i said i wanted to wait till marriage and moved on. lol
A guy trying to do it the right way doesn't get a break. Eventually I caved with one girl feeling like that is what was required to move forward vin the relationship... turns out she was engaged to another man the whole time without telling me. People are just sick and twisted these days. Even had the nerve to request me being biological father without her husband knowing. Can you believe people these days?
Sadly they do and this scenario played out twice in my life. This is why I just wait now. I need to know a woman is true and honorable and willing to put in the same effort I do. Sadly I don't see that yet.
Its a societ where boys have their genitals mutilated... make less $ for the same work... make less $ overall (in the ages 18-24 group)... and r told if u dont cry ure not fully developed
I am 53 and my fiancee is 30, and we have been together a little over 10 years so I don't see anything wrong with it. And for clarification, my fiancee is the one who initiated our relationship, so I would have to say that your question is your feelings about people's preferences.
Why is it creepy for an older guy to be with a younger girl but perfectly fine for an older woman to be with a younger guy? Women are allowed to obcsece about getting old and unwanted but men aren't?
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They do not like. older men are a frightening pedophile. They continue to use young women until they find another young woman.
It’s not a creepy situation it’s always been that way on the face of this earth even with my grandfather his new wife was 22 years Younger than him and they worked out perfectly
basic biological drives. Its a new age thing to make it "creepy" just saying. People trying to make a narrative of something when it's been around since the dawn of time. A woman is a woman, period. At that point it she's a consenting adult.
find the one that treats you good, values you, lives for you and you for him. that's all that matters. Life is too short to get hung up on stuff like this. You only have one life, make the most of your time here! Best wishes to you and the lucky guy that comes into your life hun!
Every guys no matter what age prefer the most fertile women. So it's not creepy but normal. And after all, those girls can say no if they don't wanna date old relics. But they're 18+ and at consent which is why laws can't do anything about it.
As a man who is 16 years older than my teen girlfriend... yes older men love younger women. They are far more desirable and its not just because of looks although that usually is better too but its mainly because of their personality.
@SamAlli01 how so? When one has options between... more attractive more sweet less baggage... why would someone choose less attractive less sweet more baggage? Just seems like a no brainer.
Teenage girls are so immature and young! Dude! Wtf! They’re children! I can’t even begin to think how you’d feel equal mentally to a teenager. It goes beyond my capacity to begin to understand this.
And teenagers have as much baggage but in different forms. Age doesn’t mean anything with this unless baggage to you is having kids or a woman holding you responsible to acting like an adult man.
Just creeps? Both are adults they are free to do whatever they want. Seriously people defend LGBT and say love is love but because of age its creepy 🤦🏻♂️
Well maybe because us 28 year old woman we have class know to cook and clean a home why does a stupid immature 21 year old have to offer at the table for you,? I am 28 but people always think I am 18 so you can't tell for sure I look better and skinny then a 20 year old.
They like them for real. As a person gets older they look ugly and everything just goes down hill. So older men like younger women for sex and physical beauty.
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That's my dad with younger women ... It's disgusting.
Normal comparing to gay , why would be disgusting if they are both adults and love each other ( not suger daddy relationship )
@Shihab91 cause they're my age
So what? They are adults.
@Shihab91 It is disgusting and creepy. And you better be with a 28 year old woman
@Alwayreckles93 its not creepy at all. They are adults. Its another way to experience life. Just like you can experience yours with cats
@MrPlentiful With Cats excuse me, Unlike woman your age are all Karen's.
@Alwayreckles93 calling old men creepy isn't going to work on anyone. 99% of men from ages 10 to 100 have to approach girls they like. That means they have developed a filter that prioritizes youth. Young girls are easier to impress. theyre less disillusioned. And they usually look better. But even if they dont, they're still more romantic for the reason I mentioned
Always reckles93..."women your age are all Karen's " So this means your quickly going to be a Karen and that younger women are better till that age group of karenhood. I guess you answered this question for all the on here and the younger women as well.
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I don't care what he does with younger women, why I said this is because it's weird when he does this with my friends. And trust me they were grossed out as well. Dude ruined one of my friendships for me. When they told me what he talked about with them, I felt sick hence I said that.
Man + man : its ok love is love both are adults they are free , why they bother you
Man and woman : both adult , they aren't harming anyone, both love each other ( not talking about money sex dirty relationships ) , suddenly love isn't love omg gross
>> People fear what society say about them , society say ok we are ok , society say not ok then not ok , use your head for 1 min make your opinion
@Shihab91 at the end of the day it's my opinion, I respect yours you respect mines k? Ok.
Sure fair enough
@Shihab91 You should be with a 28 year old woman not a 20 year old little girl.
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@Shihab91 Ok
A lot do. Honestly anything outside the 4 year gap is creepy to me personally
But i dont understand why people keep saying younger women can't have something in common with older. I've had lots in common with older dudes more than younger. But at the end of the day, i jusr prefer to be with someone close in age. Older men are closer to my parents age. Thats a turnoff
4 year gap you say? Hello Hello;)
@Jouth haha my current crush is the same age as you
Hehhe ayyyyye. I just secretly, telepathically fist bumped him.
But I actually lied about my age lol. In reality, I'm 27.
@Jouth yea my crush is actually 28
Ughhh. The guy with the genuine age and square jawline always gets the girl.
*sigh
@Jouth 🤣🤣🤣 well at least his name isn't chad
lol who said my name was Chad? XD
@Jouth lol no what you described is a Chad
Oh hhaha I got you. Well I hope for your sake he is a Chad in all the positive ways a Chad can be a Chad lol
@Jouth there's nothing positive about chad lmao
I mean square jaw lines and defined muscles are pretty positive, right? :P
@Jouth i admit, i like a good jawline but its not a must. As for muscles, i like skinny muscular guys with toned arms but not buff
What you're looking at is natural muscle. Not steroids. That's what I want too. I'm working towards that body type. Not quite all the way there, but I'm close.
But what about full heads of hair, and deep voices? If you like those then you do enjoy some of the positive aspects of a Chad:P
@Jouth i like to hear youthfulness in a voice. Deep voices kinda scare me. Full head of hair? I prefer shaved with little to no facial hair
Oh wow. You have unique tastes that I didn't expect. I think deep voices are badass and I wish mine was deeper!!
@Jouth nah i prefer a young lively energetic voice like Pauls
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NeIpQrCq_Ao
@DizzyDesii, if both, elderly man and young woman are happily living in their relationship, what problem you got with this match? You do as you wish, let other live their own way
@Zygum i stated “personally” which means i will personally continue to date within the gap of less than 4 years… so maybe you should go read again
@Jouth and if not paul walkers voice, then ludacris and enrique iglesias have good talking voices too
32 or 33?
@Grubhub too old for me
I have never heard such B. S. I know several married couples, the women in their 20's, guys 50 and above, and they are much happier than, married ones in their 20's, and married ones in their 30's all about same ages. And most of them marriages do not last., as they are not happy. The OLD & YOUNG are so much happier together, and love and learn together. The same age marrieds most are far from being happily married. Just my observation from being friends with both, same ages and OLD & YOUNG ages.
@SISWITHBROTHER2, you are right, i am agree, you read my comment also
LUDA!!!
@SISWITHBROTHER2 and i never said they couldnt get along. I said I've had lots in common with all ages but still prefer same age and find huge gaps creepy. So please carry on with your day
The proportion of guys voting yes has scared me lol.
Ummm why?
Because that means that a lot of older guys genuinely like younger women. So when a 40+ year old is checking me out I’m not just imagining things lol
well in the Bible, Torah, and Koran it's pretty clear that yes, men like younger women lol. Like Abraham, King David, and Mohammad had many wives that were ummmm shall we say not legal by today's standards? XD
Still feeling slightly weird about it given it’s 2021 and we live in a much more open society lol.
i mean i guess. I think adults who consent are just that really. But I understand. although when I was 19 I dated a 34 yo women lol
That sounds crazy! How was it?
No she was really good to me! Seriously like the people who've had some experience like KNOW they get it. She tried to be helpful but she got bored when i said i wanted to wait till marriage and moved on. lol
Aww well that’s silly that she got bored
A guy trying to do it the right way doesn't get a break. Eventually I caved with one girl feeling like that is what was required to move forward vin the relationship... turns out she was engaged to another man the whole time without telling me. People are just sick and twisted these days. Even had the nerve to request me being biological father without her husband knowing. Can you believe people these days?
@t-8900 Oh my goodness. That sounds terrible! I had no idea women like this existed.
Sadly they do and this scenario played out twice in my life. This is why I just wait now. I need to know a woman is true and honorable and willing to put in the same effort I do. Sadly I don't see that yet.
We live in a feminine primary society. Not an open society.
@t-8900 I’m sure you will! :)
@mrplentiful I have no idea what a feminine primary society is. This is the first I hear of this concept lol.
Why would it scare you?
Its a societ where boys have their genitals mutilated... make less $ for the same work... make less $ overall (in the ages 18-24 group)... and r told if u dont cry ure not fully developed
Feminine primary isn't a matriarchy... matriarchy means 1 female is dominant... feminine primary means all women r prioritized
I am 53 and my fiancee is 30, and we have been together a little over 10 years so I don't see anything wrong with it. And for clarification, my fiancee is the one who initiated our relationship, so I would have to say that your question is your feelings about people's preferences.
You're clueless. The ENTIRE world loves youth and beauty. BOTH genders.
The 'creep' term is for 12yo girls.
Why is it creepy for an older guy to be with a younger girl but perfectly fine for an older woman to be with a younger guy? Women are allowed to obcsece about getting old and unwanted but men aren't?
They do not like. older men are a frightening pedophile. They continue to use young women until they find another young woman.
It’s not a creepy situation it’s always been that way on the face of this earth even with my grandfather his new wife was 22 years Younger than him and they worked out perfectly
I don't know what their thinking when they do that.
basic biological drives. Its a new age thing to make it "creepy" just saying. People trying to make a narrative of something when it's been around since the dawn of time. A woman is a woman, period. At that point it she's a consenting adult.
@t-8900 interesting point
find the one that treats you good, values you, lives for you and you for him. that's all that matters. Life is too short to get hung up on stuff like this. You only have one life, make the most of your time here! Best wishes to you and the lucky guy that comes into your life hun!
@t-8900 Thank you
I find women in their 20s attractive of course, but I'm not interested in dating them.
Eh I want a younger woman with an older woman's personality and discipline. I wish pipe dreams could come true XD
wow women downvoting over a preference. And not just me but other women too. You people are so insecure, Jesus
Every guys no matter what age prefer the most fertile women. So it's not creepy but normal. And after all, those girls can say no if they don't wanna date old relics. But they're 18+ and at consent which is why laws can't do anything about it.
And fertile women tend to be the younger ones.
Those 2 oldies can't handle the truth
As a man who is 16 years older than my teen girlfriend... yes older men love younger women. They are far more desirable and its not just because of looks although that usually is better too but its mainly because of their personality.
Lol so younger women just have better personalities
@SamAlli01 generally yes. Thats the main reason i always dated younger women. But they also look better too which doesn't hurt.
You sound like you never matured
@SamAlli01 how so? When one has options between... more attractive more sweet less baggage... why would someone choose less attractive less sweet more baggage? Just seems like a no brainer.
Teenage girls are so immature and young! Dude! Wtf! They’re children! I can’t even begin to think how you’d feel equal mentally to a teenager. It goes beyond my capacity to begin to understand this.
And teenagers have as much baggage but in different forms. Age doesn’t mean anything with this unless baggage to you is having kids or a woman holding you responsible to acting like an adult man.
@SamAlli01 "how you’d feel equal mentally..." i don't? Obviously im more experienced and more mature? Why would i need to be equal mentally?
"unless baggage to you is having kids..." yeah i dont date single moms. Why would i when i have other options?
"holding you responsible to acting like an adult man." Not sure what that even means.
Exactly
@SamAlli01 so you agree with my points?
To what I’ve seen, many many old men do and many women and even teenage girls are also attracted to them. I’m one liking some old me too.
But it’s ok for an 80 year old female pop star to bed a guy in his 20’s…. I smell a big double standard and it stinks.
An older guy can like a younger woman. Whether he is a creep or not probably has to do with how much money he has.
Just creeps? Both are adults they are free to do whatever they want. Seriously people defend LGBT and say love is love but because of age its creepy 🤦🏻♂️
With that being said im almost 23 and gonna find a 18 year old boyfriend i like them younger
Why not? Do you both love each other? Go ahead more power to you
Ps: I'm talking about real love not sugar daddy nasty relationships
Well maybe because us 28 year old woman we have class know to cook and clean a home why does a stupid immature 21 year old have to offer at the table for you,? I am 28 but people always think I am 18 so you can't tell for sure I look better and skinny then a 20 year old.
They know they rarely have a chance but no one can dispute that a 20 year old is usually more attractive then a 40 year old regardless of gender.
They like them for real. As a person gets older they look ugly and everything just goes down hill. So older men like younger women for sex and physical beauty.
Pfft yeah, cause 50 year olds are more attractive than 20 year olds, gimme a break >.> 50 year olds don't become hotter just cause you yourself are 50