I see other guys saying to girls “you have beautiful eyes” or “stunning”
but I seem to mainly get comments on my boobs, arse or lips (basically sexual parts)
is my face average?
You have a very pretty face and big beautiful eyes. BUT... you also have what I call a "sexually exaggerated" body - meaning you have big boobs and big lips (and some hips too) for your body size, and, yes, all of these are characteristics that tend to make men have sexual thoughts more than just romantic thoughts. I'm not sure if you're old enough to know who Jessica Rabbit is (from Who Framed Roger Rabbit?), but she was drawn with exaggerated curves because that's considered to be sexual.
Well, that's kind of how your body is. While that's hardly a BAD thing, I understand that you would prefer to be seen more romantically and less sexually, and, yeah, I'm sure that's a struggle at times. But if your sexual attractiveness was taken away tomorrow, and you were suddenly frumpy-looking and found that male attention had vanished, I doubt you could survive a week without begging to have your sexy body back. It's easy to take for granted something that came easily to you, but millions of women would literally kill to have what you've got, and many pay huge sums of money to get a bad imitation of what you've got, so keep that in mind.
In my opinion, you have a really pretty face, but you don't smile much in your pictures. Also I feel you put too much effort into your face but your body is presented just naturally. I wouldn't call you ugly at all. You're quiet beautiful but it just maybe comes across that you're trying too hard with your face.
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My favourite part of you are your eyes!!
Its not the color. Its the shape and how they are set against your cheekbones. Its like you're out of a painting!!
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That's easy. You've got especially nice breasts. really wouldn't read it to imply that guys don't also like your face.
So, when I could only see you question on my feed (before I saw any of your pictures)... I thought...
"Oh I bet this girl just has a really really nice body, so that's what people notice first, or focus on, or think that YOU are focused on (because you've put work into making it so nice)."
I'll be honest with you though... before seeing your pictures I assumed that the girl probably didn't have an especially pretty face. I knew you weren't going to have an unattractive face, or you would have never asked this question. You would have already KNOWN why guys compliment your body but not your face.
So I clicked your question, and my immediate reaction was to be confused. Because you do have a pretty face. But then a second or two later, I took a second look at your body... and I understood.
Yes. That is what's happening. You have a body that is distractingly good looking enough to end up sucking up all the compliments.
Let me put it this way:
If you were wearing a big winter coat. You would get lots of compliments about how pretty you were (your face... since your hiding your body).
So I can totally see how noticing this phenomenon has made you think "so... what do I have an ugly face then?"
But no. That's really not what's happening at all (at least I don't think so).
It's not that guys think your body is so hot COMPARED with how hot they think your face is. They just think it's hot enough to get distracted enough to direct their first compliments towards it. 🙂
Men always tend to notice cleavage, boobs, ass, curves, legs of girls who are showing them off. Try introducing some suspense and surprises to it...
Let go of your insecurities, don't depend on what people say about you, you are perfect in every way, showing confidence in yourself will attract the right guys.
love yourself however you are, listen to men who talk about spending their whole life with you and pay attention only to men who don't want you for just for 1 night.
If you want to hear compliments about your face, only let them see your face, you gotta hide that supermodel like body & figure of yours from eyes of men so the ones who sexualize you can't get to see any of it...
Try women's middle eastern clothing styles, I think they're called Shayla & Abaya,
It has a big scarf over your head allowing only your face to be visible, and a huge thick gown covering your entire body, men won't talk about what they can't see, automatically they're focus will land up on your pretty face and they start commenting new compliments about it.
Good luck.
A lot of your clothes are revealing. Guys are visual. Their vision gets drawn to your body. So, that's what they compliment.
Also since your clothes are revealing. They assume that's where you want their focus. Which again will lead to those compliments.
Your face is objectively pretty.
+ Balanced facial features
+ Facial symmetry
+ Full lips
+ High cheekbones
+ Clear skin
+ Nice nose
+ Large eyes
+ Bright white eyes
+ Soft jawline
It all adds up to a knockout. You're young and beautiful. No need to worry about it so much.
Glad to oblige.
Your face is really pretty... quite striking, really. Your eyes are dazzling. You have a lovely nose. The lip filler was a mistake, but your mouth is still lovely. I'll bet you'd look stunning if you smiled.
Mistake: too much makeup and don't use so much mascara. All of the makeup makes you look fake.
As far as guys focusing more on your body: You've got an amazing bod. There nothing wrong with being proud of it. But the way you dress draws all the focus to it. It's like you are wearing a neon sigh that says "Look at my body." Again, with a bod like that you can swagger with pride. But don't advertise it so much of you want guys to want guys who are sincere. Tone down the make up. Go with the fresh, natural "no makeup" makeup look. Look like a wholesome girl if you want guys to be interested in who you really are.
You're beautiful. Let guys see it.
Hard to say. We don't really get to see much of your face. It looks like it's hidden underneath a lot of makeup. Or at the very least the overall impression is it looks fake. Based on the first picture it looks like there is an actual pretty face there, but I am mostly forced to guess.
Also, 2 out of 3 pictures you display your sexual parts very openly. If you really just wanted to know, I say dress more more modestly for a few weeks, reduce the makeup and other face modifications to a minimum and see if that changes how people perceive you. Not that there is anything necessarily wrong with how you look now, but it changes what types of men will be motivated to comment on your looks in the first place. I would notice you and then proceed to ignore you without comment, because I would see you as someone absolutely incompatible with me. With another style there is a good chance I might be attracted. There is a lot more your look communicates about you than just beautiful/ugly.
They may not find your face attractive.
Although I will say, it looks like you got your lips boxtoxed. And that's not a good look. Especially with how pulled back your mouth is on the sides. It looks like you got cosmetic surgery done and that can be a turn off for many guys. You look like you focus too much on your face and appearance, and thus, come off vapid and self-centered. Like the type obsessed with their looks. That is the impression you give off, anyway.
If you smiled (if it's possible), wore less makeup, and didn't expose your skin like that, men would probably have a better impression of you.
@priv9696 Since I never followed my first job idea (plastic surgeon) my question might sound silly, but I'll ask anyway... regarding the lip fillers, is this a permanent look? Or does the filler material disperse over time?
Regarding your original question, I'd say you just have to dress more conservatively. The executive business women look, or something like that. Or you could try to bring up a snippy remark, like Nicole Scherzinger did: :-D :-D
P. S. Ignore the racists, it's a waste of time.
Your face is very pretty. If you want guys to focus on your face more though, then you ought to redirect their focus to your face. If the clothes you typically wear are like the images you've shared, then I'd suggest wearing clothes that are less revealing. Maybe something more like this...
What @IncognitoBandito said. for me you almost have a certain vibe. It's not to the point of being intimidating but because you dont smile more it gives off a hmmmm a not so friendly, welcoming, or warm vibe. Like a "dont mess with me or else" type feeling.
I think you just discovered pretty much all guy's secret list of hierarchy. Usually how pretty you are in the face comes after how attractive your body is. It's the first thing we notice. It's not that you're ugly, (you aren't, much the opposite) but your body is very obviously looks great.
It has nothing to do with a lack of attractiveness in your face. It's for two reasons. The first is that you wear relatively revealing clothes, and men often take that as permission to comment on your body. Even if you don't mean to be signaling to them that they have that freedom. Second, a man will comment on your face when he is emotionally interested in you. If he's only commenting on your body? He doesn't care about you personally at all, he only thinks you're hot
I guess it mostly the way how you dressed, because usually us men enjoy staring and seeing a women body. To you girls it might be considered as creepy as you perverted but to us actual guys it is only natural. Remember what @Wiredone said if you try to dress in a more conservative clothing that doesn't expose your body, I am pretty sure most men will start paying attention to your facial features.
Nah, your face and ass look equal.
Let’s see here.
A lot has to do with how they were raised. If they were taught core values or not about respecting people.
Look at current entertainment, movies, tv shows and such. They push sexuality big time. Lots of men really do just want to fuck and don’t want a relationship, so they will say that and when people think of fucking they don’t think of your face. They think of your boobs, your butt, your vagina, etc.
I mean and body look equal lol.
I’m way off today. Your face and body look equal
You should follow me so we can chat sometime
2 reasons.
1 Your photos are usually always of your entire body.
2 You always dress in sexy revealing outfits that highlight your bod.
Try posting nothing but face close ups.
by the way,
Your figure is exquisite and your face/eyes are jaw dropping.
men don't care that much about your face they look at your body because they want sex
but some men don't care about their girlfriends bodies and they choose face "SMART ONES"!
I choose face because 'face' last longer than your body
You have a pretty face with nice eyes, but you often look very serious or almost angry or something. Like you don't always smile a lot in pictures.
But its not just your body, you are attractive.
Sorry just seen that picture now, yeah you look very pretty in that. You're a good looking girl, don't worry too much about focus on your body, you are still very pretty and good looking. Girlfriend material
I'm actually really surprised you are single.
I can understand your frustration in that regard, but don't fret.
Its maybe because your only 24, like guys in your age bracket aren't looking for relationships until much later. In another few years that'll change.
Do you know what you want in a man? Like you have a specific type?
They compliment your body because you show it. If you start wearing more moderate clothes they would stop sexualize you in their thoughts and would start complimenting your face
well most won't be thinking of dating you... so you already know why they're saying it
I'll state the obvious because nobody else is. You look good except for your lips. Your eyes and nose are perfect and your skin in beautiful. But your lips are too big for your face.
That is strictly the cosmetic reason though. You are very sexual in the pics which invites sexual comments. And you present an unfriendly demeanor as well. So no reason to try to make nice based on that.
Actually you have a beautiful face. The thing is that we, men are attracted to boobs, asses and bodies first. It's the first things we notice but it's not your fault. You have the full package, everything on you is stunning👌
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