There is a guy that I see around a couple times a week during a class I have and can't figure out if he likes me or not. I catch him staring my way every so often, I think I've even caught him checking out my derriere but when I see him outside he completely ignores me (or at least acts like it) even when I walk near him. I know he talks about me to his friends but I'm not sure what he's saying, maybe he's saying something mean. Anyways even if he's coming towards me I even look at him to see if he's looking and maybe give a smile but he just keeps on walking. Am I making him nervous? Or is he just a jerk, who wants nothing to do with me? If he does like me how can I talk to him or at least make him feel comfortable? I just don't want to make a fool of myself going up to him and start talking if he wan'ts nothing to do with me.
Why does this guy act like he doesn't 'see' me, when I know I've seen him staring at me before?
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he could
a) like you and feel that you don't like him back
b) be shy and not want to possibly be rejected
c)not be interested in you like that
d) he could be playing hard to get
i think you should strike up a conversation with him and do things to drive him wild
a few examples would be to
-drop something in front of him and pick it up
-flip your hair
-bump into him in an innocent manner
-massage his shoulders
my opinion is that he is just clueless that you like him. and that you should act like you're confused in a class that you both have and try to bait him into asking you to study. once he asks you to study then you dress really sexy and see if you can distract him. if he does study with you I would recommend that you wear a skirt and lay on the ground in front of him with your book in front of you.make sure he sees a little but you're covered up.it will drive him nuts and maybe.interest him. get into his head.
if you could go answer my latest question and give me a brief opinion of what you think that would be great and leave a comment on my answer and we can chat further if you like
If you catch him looking at you and then he quickly looks away, he either likes you, or he thinks that you are cute. Guys don't sneak looks at ugly or unattractive girls. Make a funny and slightly sarcastic comment to him about something that he did and then smile. If he does not like you he will give you a weird look and try to ignore you. If he likes you, which he does, he will smile and maybe laugh as he tries to come up with a decent comeback. He will then try to extend the conversation. good luck
Omg I have the same exact problem.There's this guy in my class that I always feel like he's watching me or something, I even caught him staring at me when we were in the library for our research paper. I've always gotten the vibe that he liked me but he's talking another girl but he says he's single.
I guess both of us just have to approach them and see what happens. to see if he's interested or not. :)