He said he loves you, but it doesn't show. He never cheats but gives you his bare minimum. Is it still right to stay? (Page 2)

[Adam1978]

Uhm what efforts do you expect? Have you communicated about them. Personally I think it's best to not build up expectations from persons if you never seen it as their nature.

[exitseven]

I stayed with somebody that claimed she loved me but really put zero effort into the relationship. I kept expecting her to change but she never did. When I broke up with her she had no idea anything was wrong.

[JDAC2209199]

I'd say talk to him about how you feel, there's two reactions, he'll agree with you or he'll tell you why he is only giving bare minimum

[humpbackjack]

If you’re willing to stay for their bare minimum then thats probably all you’re ever going to get from them

[LZPanzer]

I question what you consider the bare minimum. What are your expectations.

[Waldoe]

personality? maybe he is, shy or worried about life, the future, yiour happiness? nothing is stopping you from displaying how much you Love him, it may helo "Draw" him out...

[AdithyaR]

Empty words with no action to back them up mean nothing.

[nawtee_me]

people do not always know how to show emotions and some were never taught that when growing up. He may have been taught not to show emotion...

[Mike923]

Confront him about the situation, be honest on how you feel. If it doesn't help then end it with him. No sense of staying someone that isn't making you happy.

[Yourfriend2021]

If he doesn't show you that he loves you, maybe he doesn't.