Ok, so there is a lot more to our relationship than I can type here, but my boyfriend used to always tell me I was his dream girl, and said he has never met a girl like me or one that he has been more interested in than me. He used to call me baby/babe/dear/sweets/love in texts all the time, but now its only babe in person, just because I think it's routine when he's calling out to me. We've been dating for a year & a half, 23 and 25 years old, and recently moved back to our small, drama filled hometown from a big city where I knew no one. He is living with his mom until he finds a place to live, while I stay either with him some nights or at my parents house. He has had to deal with hearing a lot of horrible rumors about me, which are untrue, but he doesn't believe me. He says he doesn't want to be seen in this town with me, and doesn't show me any love like he used to since we moved here. He likes me still, I know he does, and he knows it too. But I think he is fighting with himself every day regarding his feelings for me. What can I do to get back this love from him and make him realize that I am still his dream girl? Do I start spending more time with myself and make him miss me? I am at a complete loss of what to do.
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I have tried talking to him about me and him finding a place to live together, and he hasn't rejected the idea yet. But I haven't had any luck finding a place to live here, and him living with his mom has caused a lot of stress between us both, which isn't helping our relationship any. This is my 3rd serious relationship, and by far the best one. He has made me feel like I have worth, and actually has made me feel happy about myself... I just want my boyfriend back.
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