How can I get my boyfriend to love me the way he used to?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so there is a lot more to our relationship than I can type here, but my boyfriend used to always tell me I was his dream girl, and said he has never met a girl like me or one that he has been more interested in than me. He used to call me baby/babe/dear/sweets/love in texts all the time, but now its only babe in person, just because I think it's routine when he's calling out to me. We've been dating for a year & a half, 23 and 25 years old, and recently moved back to our small, drama filled hometown from a big city where I knew no one. He is living with his mom until he finds a place to live, while I stay either with him some nights or at my parents house. He has had to deal with hearing a lot of horrible rumors about me, which are untrue, but he doesn't believe me. He says he doesn't want to be seen in this town with me, and doesn't show me any love like he used to since we moved here. He likes me still, I know he does, and he knows it too. But I think he is fighting with himself every day regarding his feelings for me. What can I do to get back this love from him and make him realize that I am still his dream girl? Do I start spending more time with myself and make him miss me? I am at a complete loss of what to do.

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I have tried talking to him about me and him finding a place to live together, and he hasn't rejected the idea yet. But I haven't had any luck finding a place to live here, and him living with his mom has caused a lot of stress between us both, which isn't helping our relationship any. This is my 3rd serious relationship, and by far the best one. He has made me feel like I have worth, and actually has made me feel happy about myself... I just want my boyfriend back.

[Sekret]

Well its a little hard to answer to a situation like this.

The only thing that brings a person the will to have something is when he losses it. (Sad but true).

One way, is to take you and him to some distant place for a short vocation, brings up a good atmosphere and tightens bonds.

And another way, almost none good, he didn't completely lost interest in you, he is just lost the feeling of how important you are in his life, and how valuable you are.

If you had an idea how to remind him of this, I'm sure it will help.

The only way I know (as a guy who experienced that) is when the girl takes a break from you.

It hurts the relationship for the meantime, but afterward it gains a big push.

I never met a situation where it brought everything back.

The only time when a guy fully restores his interest and value in his girl, is when she is already dating another guy, sorry to tell you.

[Gamillions]

You can't go back. You can't make someone do what you want. SO welcome to reality.
This is what marriages go through. Making it even more important to make sure you will love someone after being married for 30 years. Everyone gets fatter... loses their good looks and the real reason to marry someone is not for SEX. I married a GORGEOUS woman and 4 months later she tried to kill me because I said it was OK to watch my son for 2 hours. It's almost like today you have to get a future mate to fill out a questionaire and answer some direct questions like.
WILL YOU LOVE ME IF I GET REAL FAT?
WILL YOU LOVE ME IF I LOSE EVERYTHING?
DO YOU HAVE ANY UUNDERLYING CONDITIONS I DON'T KNOW ABOUT?
sad bt true