He asked me out for coffee. How to know if he’s really interested or I’m just a option for him?

[Anonymous]

We have exchanged numbers. Due to some reason we can’t meet right way but we have plans to meet. So far we’ve been texting each other.
He seems interested. He playfully teases me a lot etc, says often goodnight at the end of our conversations and wishes me a good working day.

[Mofunfour20]

Since he's interested and you said yes then you became an option. Had you said no then you would not be an option. Does he have to harass you for you to believe he is even interested 😂🤣😂🤣🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

[Asker]

Seriously do you think he likes me or not?

[Mofunfour20]

If you're asking again then you're bound to fail, thinking too much

[Asker]

What do you mean? That he obviously likes me?

[Mofunfour20]

Stop being a 🤡 and ask him. This is ridiculous

[Asker]

Well he did ask me out for coffee and I thought that confirms that he likes me….

[Mofunfour20]

That implies you already had the answer to your question. Why are you wasting people's time if you already know? 🤦

[mysfit]

The question is, do you like him? If you plan to go out for a coffee, if you can wait - then go for it. If you guys exchange text, he must be on for some intelligent, playful, and casual conversations. But if you really want to know if he likes you, you go out with him. And see where it leads. The last question is non-sense. You don't really ask that until you know him very well. You're thinking about it too much.

[Alyssa_11]

Take it slow and see what happens. If he likes you it will be clear. Give it a couple of months max.

[Wise4myage]

He will ask you out on a second date, but look for other options at the same time.

[spartan55]

How does he know that he isn't an option for you?

[DonkeyDan]

There really isn't a way for you to know.