Went on a date with a guy who I met on an app. Started with a phone call, which led to following each other on social media, and then a video chat. Then we decided to meet in person the following weekend. We started off with a coffee chat, then migrated to getting lunch. After a five hours, he dropped me off. And we went on with our lives for the remainder of the day. Toward 5pm he called me and asked me if I’d be open to having dinner At his place. He says he wanted to continue our date/conversations. I said I already ate but would like to continue our now long date. So he picked me up, we had wine and chatted for hours until midnight (5 hrs). And throughout the night we sat closer and closer to each other on the couch. And as the night was closing in when we realized how late it was, we started making out…and things escalated and we ended up in the bedroom. Before dropping me off he said he’d like to see me again. We both noted that conversations we have with each other are effortless, and that he hasn’t met an interesting and attractive woman like me in a long time. He’s very vocal which is different than what I’m used to but very refreshing. Bottom line is, is this going too fast? Though we had what equates to three dates into one long day, we had sex none the less… did that potentially jeopardize the rest of this experience? I’m old school and don’t quite know what the dating scene is nowadays. And don’t know if this is just a long con and if the guy is just messing around haha. Don’t know. Would like to hear opinions from folks who’s been at this game for a while.
Is this normal in dating- asking because I haven’t been back in the dating scene for a few years now. Not sure what is normal anymore. I’m a 35F?
