I feel bad that my boyfriend never posts me on social media it’s usually his dinner alone and that he’s always on the phone is that normal?

[Anonymous]

Could him always checking his phone for sports and friends even after sex mean that he may not be that into me anymore or not enjoy being with me? I've been feeling bad and like I wish that he would show me off more im already pretty insecure I always post him but he never posts me. Also he used to have a pic of me as his wallpaper but now he just has his favorite basketball players on his phone instead. Even though i asked him if he was maybe embarrassed of me he still didn’t post me he said that he just didn’t post much. For valentines day he was just going to post his wine glass and he took it down because I told him that that looked like he was single I don’t know how guy’s brain’s work

[spartan55]

Sounds like you aren't very interesting to him.

[Asker]

Is that the only reason? Also do you check your sports right after sex?

[spartan55]

I do not.

[Asker]

Why do you think that he does that?

[spartan55]

Because you don't interest him outside of sex.

[Asker]

Then why does he take me to work and pick me up everyday and is always telling me that he loves me and is always so sweet? I am so confused

[spartan55]

If those type of things have meaning then it's nice. But talk is cheap.
Why does him posting you on social media matter to you at all? It means nothing.

[Asker]

How about buying me presents?

[spartan55]

That's great, but your concern lies elsewhere. Have you talked to him about how you feel?

[Asker]

Im thinking about asking him to let me check his phone because I've been having way too many dreams of him talking to other girls and it’s been bothering i also don’t know who he’s texting all the time and why he didn’t let me scroll up on his group chat

[spartan55]

Did I read that correctly? You want to look through his phone because of DREAMS you are having? Oh dear... I don't know your boyfriend, but if you were my girlfriend, and you asked to look through my phone, I would dump you on the spot.

[spartan55]

Honey, you don't trust him, just end it.

[Asker]

It’s not just him I don’t trust anybody. I’ve never asked to look at his phone before even when he hid it from me one time

[spartan55]

If you don't trust anybody you shouldn't be in any sort of relationship because it will fail 100%.

[spartan55]

If you really think it's a good idea to go through his phone because of your dreams then go ahead. Just don't be surprised if everything just falls apart though.

[spartan55]

So, why should he trust you?

[Asker]

I decided not to just being with him and how sweet he always is completely changed my mind

[Asker]

Just people on here be hurting my feelings lol

[spartan55]

How so?

[Asker]

I just be asking questions about how I feel and stuff and there’s always that one comment saying that he’s not attracted to me anymore, he’s fucking someone else, or he’s not interested and those types of comments just make me overthink a lot

[spartan55]

From what you've said I think you owe it to yourself to take a hard look at your relationship and if you think it is making you happy.

[Asker]

I will