There is a guy I see everyday at the park where I do my soccer training individually and he coaches kids there. We are about the same age. I don’t know this guy but I’ve caught him many times looking at me, looking my way and has even greeted my brother but avoids me. Monday when I had just arrived, I smiled and waved at him (because I see him almost everyday) but he pretended he didn’t see me. Then when I was putting sunscreen I caught him looking at me and I smiled and he briefly smiled and looked elsewhere. Wednesday I passed by him and tried to greet him again and he just moved to the other side of the field. It’s weird because every time we make eye contact or I smile at him, he looks at his phone or looks elsewhere. Also when he is talking to other guys, he looks at me and turns around to give me his back. I’m not being rude so why would a guy act this way?
I have no idea. Sometimes when I am starting at people which I try not to do that is not a... good sign and other times I do like the person. Like if someone is acting out or doing something weird.
With that being said if you really like him your best bet is to approach him maybe "hey I see you here a lot I thought I would say hi and introduce myself" then if you talk for a while maybe see if he would like to meet you for coffee or something and exchange numbers
Maybe he does not want to get caught looking at you. Maybe he is nervous to approach or just figures he does not know you so..
If you like him (if you are creeped out by him then ignore this part)
Approach him you might loose your chance. What if he ends up approaching or meeting a woman? What if a woman approaches him? I think that you might wait too long.
I am sure you're nervous and that is alright. That is the thrill. I think you should introduce yourself and say hi to him. Unless he already is in a relationship and that is the reason he does not approach you. I can't read his mind though.
If he rejects you then you done your part. I don't think he is being rude if you don't even know him and never even talked to him before. Maybe he just does not want to get caught staring at you.
- But maybe he's taken and shouldn't be looking yet can't help it. - He might be shy and don't know what to do so he don't want to be more awkward than than that so he turns away.
Guys like to look at attractive people. It just happens. Sometimes we mean to do it other times less so. I'm sure he don't mean to be rude but like if he'd stare for too long then it would instead be creepy, wouldn't it?
He could approach if it's appropriate. But maybe if he's busy coaching kids he really shouldn't "take his eye off the ball".
If you like it (you were smiling back), you could find an excuse to get closer, maybe you even ask/hint him to help you out somehow. If you don't want his attention you ignore it.
I do this a lot at work actually. It's usually nervousness, some shyness and a little of she won't want me. Usually when I see a pretty girl I like I avoid her because I really don't want to deal with the competition, plus I don't want to be putting on a show for her as to why she should pick me over the others. Also he probably doesn't know how he would start a conversation with you or what would he even say to being with. That's another reason why I'd probably do that. Of course these are my reasons as to why I'd do it
Richard Pryor explained why black men held their crotches, A naive white guy apparently asked Pryor, "how come you guys always hold your thingies"? To which Pryor responded, "you mother f#$%&@s done took everything else, shit!! You're not taking this! Why white guys do it as well is a mystery.
There's no clear and acceptable way for a man to approach. It's extremely, sky diving without ba parachute risky , for a man to initiate a relationship , my advice to men is , DON'T , it's just not worth it anymore. .
He is taking mental measurements of your skin. Trying to figure out how many lamp shades he would get. Jkjk. He already knows. Jk again. I don't know but he sounds like a real jerk!
Could be many things, but I personally think he is very shy and introverted and thinks he doesn't stand a chance with you so he avoids the pain of rejection
He's shy. Shy guys also tend to be sensitive to rejection so the few times they do try and surely get rejected it will just reinforce their passive behavior.
You're going to have to make the first move if you want anything to happen.
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