Is the problem with not caring about what others think of u and just not caring about everything in general that the world gets boring easier?

[Bubblefart01]

Im a lady so when i was beimg myself carimg about everyone and everything i wpuld keep being hurt but i was not bored. Now i dont care (my choice) and im bored in life and daily life

[MrOracle]

You are bored because you are addicted to the drama that comes with caring about everything. It's not enough to stop caring about all of the noise that you can't do anything about, you must also replace all of that with worthwhile pursuits - things that bring you some success and satisfaction and feeds your soul a little bit.

The drama was a way to fill your life and activate your emotions in an artificial way - kind of emotional junk food - and while you have cut out the junk food, you still need to replace it with healthy food or you haven't finished the job.

[Bubblefart01]

What fulfils you?

[MrOracle]

Well, my job has lots of projects - some I can finish in a day, and others take months, but at the end, I turn over something to my customer that enhances their life or business. (I install Ausio/Video systems, networking and Wi-Fi, security camera systems, and "smart home" stuff.)

I also get fulfillment from helping my friends and acquaintances, especially with their relationships, but with some other things too.

You just have to find where fulfillment lives for you.

[Bubblefart01]

Well i like music, dance. Im a good dancer just haven't taken a lesson so its just raw.

[Bubblefart01]

Not that its a gelpful skill or rven lucrative. I just love it.

[MrOracle]

Dancing is definitely something that you could invest some time and effort in to improve your skills and range and really enjoy.

[MrOracle]

Being able to improve and progress at a skill you love can certainly be fulfilling.

[Bubblefart01]

I gotta try that :D

[Guy13]

No, that’s is ridiculous. I’ve never been on social media of any sort less linked-in. No notifications TV since 17. On this since February and that’s it.

[Guy13]

I have Achievements that I surely wouldn’t have if I sat on my game y ass, 📺 show watching, fixated on idiot box news and negativity…
It might be because of all the digital that you are down and bored etc?

[Changiis07]

That's kind of what's happening to me to. Life does become boring when we stop caring

[Bubblefart01]

😞😞😞

[Th3ft]

Well it is easier to loos passion and goals when you don’t care. You should keep your passions and goals. But no one matters but those who you choose should matter.

[Bubblefart01]

I ENJOY COOKING AND MY GOAL IS BE A HOUSEWIFE AND WIFE AND MOM

[Crankor]

That's because you were living for everyone else and not yourself

[Bubblefart01]

What is?

[Blackcupcake]

not really…