Met on Tinder, switched to Insta? Lastly he left me on read, can‘t Access to Insta now? Should I Write him via tinder?

[Anonymous]

I dont‘t know if he Wrote something because I can‘t Access to my insta Account for now. Lastly, When I checked there was no Message. Not Sure if I should Write him via Tinder That I can‘t Access to insta. Wouldn‘t it be too cringe to Write Although he didn‘t answer back ( which I don’t know for sure)

What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I’d wait until I could get back onto insta and check for a response. The thing is, just as easily as you can shoot him a message on tinder, he can do the same. Rather than create an assumption in your mind, go with what you DO know, and what you do know is that he last left you on read. So don’t go out of your way to chat just yet. Unless you’ve already sent a message then I guess you’ll either hear back or not.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, if you are looking for something serious then I would not recommend Tinder. Sure people have success on there, but they are far and few between. It’s deemed the hookup app with good reason, and I’ve personally never met someone who didn’t find the app a waste of time in the end. Even friends who have kept their profile open for years just peruse it out of boredom.

[Asker]

That‘s What is on my mind. Problem is That this Insta Block is Probaby going to Remain for a few days to Weeks according to people going through the Same

[Asker]

My Account can still be Seen. I just can‘t log in. So I don‘t think he will know about me and my failed log in

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not sure how all of that works, but I do believe you could reach out to support if you haven’t already, and maybe they can help sort the situation faster. But regardless of how long it takes to gain access to that account, the fact still remains that he can also message you on tinder, if he is serious about advancing with you. It’s important to approach new dating situations with your standards in place, and I think a fair requirement is minimal effort on his end. It takes no time to message you through tinder, and just as you are eager enough to reach out, he should be as well. On top of that, what if you do reach out on tinder, then gain access to Instagram only to see yourself still left on read?

[Asker]

I don‘t know really. Do you think he would try on Tinder when I don‘t reply him on Instagram?
If I answer someone back and this Person doesn‘t reply back I wouldn‘t honestly reach out again.
But he is a guy and probably thinks different. So you say I should do nothing?

[Opinion Owner]

But that isn’t quite the truth, because as of right now, you know he hasn’t responded and you are ready to message him on tinder. Could he have responded to your message later? Maybe. But that isn’t something you know for sure, and like I initially said, your actions going forward should be based off the facts you do have currently. So with the knowledge that he has left you on read, I would not message him on tinder. It is not hard for him to contact you through there, especially if he can see that you haven’t opened his message (that is with the assumption that he responded).

[Asker]

I understand 😊 thank u very much.

[Opinion Owner]

No worries ☺️🙏

[Anonymous]

Send him a quick text, but nothing beyond that.

[Opinion Owner]

If he doesn't reply back within a few days, than move on.

[Asker]

If he really left me on Seen, wouldn‘t he think I Said That on Purpose just to keep Talking to him