Our conversations something get me confused?

[jessicauwa]

why does he talk to me casual when his with friends.
Why does he also talk to me casually sometimes on phone.
Today I was on phone with him and we where talking and he reminded me about today being his sisters birthday and I then went on to say oh! Happy birthday to her and he quickly responded with thank you so much
Really appreciate.
Only for me to walk to where he was few hours later and found out he was standing with a gal from my department and they where talking.. I just started to feel that why he sounded casual to me.. but why do that happen please. I need deferent ideas please 🙏🏻

[Whatever2929292]

Thanks for the follow! I really have no idea. Maybe he likes you or maybe he just sees you as a good friend. If you do like him then ask him out. If not then I would just say that he is a friend

[jessicauwa]

Thank you

[Whatever2929292]

You're welcome

[Jamie05rhs]

So you're wondering why he multitasks and keeps in touch with you while he's with other people?

[jessicauwa]

Yes and it all confusing

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm; not sure. I think maybe you need to have a talk with him and ask him to give you his full attention when speaking with you.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[JakeS00]

It can mean nothing but i would clear up any confusion with him so you both won’t have any speculations.

[jessicauwa]

Do you think I should asking him.. regarding the fact that I really wanted to stop asking things this days so it doesn’t look like am
Nagging.. because it not like we have put a tag on the relationship.. we just there and he told me he doesn’t want commitment and so since we just there doing other things without putting a tag on what we doing and am inlove with him

[JakeS00]

If he doesn’t want commitment I guess that’s your answer.

[Jamie05rhs]

@jessicauwa So he specifically said that he doesn't want commitment, and yet you allowed yourself to fall in love with him. Yeah, that isn't going to end well.

[In_Trance]

I don't understand your mentality here.
Who is he?

[jessicauwa]

😔😔😔😔

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why don't you just straight up ask him that way there are no misconceptions

[jessicauwa]

I don’t wanna sound like am nagging

[Bklynbadboy12]

Trust me you won't be nagging communication is the key plus it's the only way to know for sure

[jessicauwa]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your so welcome. Did you ask him yet

[Anonymous]

He just sounds like a chill guy

[noohair]

So he can't talk to people he works with?