my age is 39
Why do brown men not want to get married?
my age is 39
Offer a prenuptial agreement. That may help. Why do you need marriage anyways? If you have been together for 8 years, doesn't that prove that he cares for you?
If you are considering leaving you should reconsider unless you want to be a single mother forever. Your age and that you have a kid means any good/decent guys will have NO INTEREST in you. You have been in a relationship too long to realize it, but with your status (age and kid) your relationship value is almost zero in reality. The most you could hope for would be a single father.
Be realistic and don't fall for wishful thinking of something that is very unlikely to ever happen.
There is no co relation between brown men and getting married , it's something related to that person. No all brown man stays single.
Regarding self esteem , keep yourself surround by good people and good environment also key for the development of your child too.
No need to beg anyone to get married.
One can also get married at 45 too , you can google such examples
Hope I was able to answer your question
That should have been established 8 years ago. And that's also why you don't have kids before the wedding.
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Lol is this my girlfriend? We’ve been together for about 13 years. We’re not married either. To me things feel good as they are. No paper is going to make me love her more. To me I feel as though why fix what isn’t broke. Marriage seems to complicate things.
Maybe feels it's not necessary? It doesn't "prove" anything and if you get a divorce (realistically and statistically speaking, a very real possibility), it will literally ruin the rest of his life, and that's not an exaggeration, very literally. Ex wives can ever go after a guy's pension in retirement (how far is that?). It really is a wonder that ANY guy gets married ever honestly.
And even more "proof" of it not proving anything, look at yourself even, you are actually willing to leave him completely and end the relationship because he won't marry you! To me, that alone would make me question how much you love or care about me even. When marriage is a literal "goal", if you were a guy, how would you feel about it when women are like this? It's like a guy wanting sex from you. "he only wants sex?", "she only wants marriage (any real feelings for me)?" (I kind of view it the same way). Granted it's been 8 years, but have you talked about long term relationship goals ever? Has he lead you to believe he's always wanted marriage, or have you just assumed and never talked about it together?
You are going to leave your child motherless or fatherless because he doesn't want to get married? Some people just don't feel the need to get married and it is a huge expense.
Because he's getting everything he needs already without the legal nightmare that marriage often becomes for men.
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He'll marry you once he's 60 maybe 55
Why would marry you? He already got the kid and the Vagina.
There's no point only danger you already complaining and talking about leaving so why risk it
Why marry you if he is already having sex with you?
are you crazy I would never get legally married
Marriage only benefits women.
Because they r brown
I think they do
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