So let’s say your girl is a big nerd and loves gaming, sci fi, fantasy, role playing, anime etc. Is this a turn on or off for you? From my experience most guys find my nerdiness cute and love when I play Mario kart with them but that’s my experience.
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It's great when you own who you actually are, nerds and geeks to people that are nerds and geeks already can be great friends or horrible combatants.
For example if both of you are fiercely competitive, you might find you fight more than play together happily.
Two geeks that play together may seem like a great couple, but most like interests in other types of people, if one is a survivalist and the other a battlefield junkie. There is going to be a rough road.
Course if you both like sex, and having sex together and can apply that to while you're playing. There is no limits to what you can do together. Cooperatively or Competitively.
Yes, mostly because I am too. No one in my circles would believe it if you told them, they all think I'm great with the ladies & I can be on the surface but generally never let them too close. I like to read, watch documentaries, some cartoons, been known to get baked now & then, build computers, got a disc with every known game Atari - N64 on it & wireless ps4 controllers to paly them on. I also like working with mechanics & electronics. I still GM D&D second edition campaign once a month ish for friends & their kids. My nephews / nieces really enjoy them, even set it up with a projector for them & they had a blast playing games on it. I've tried to find a woman like this but they always seem to be unsure of what they want, insecure, shy & that's a turnoff if it persists. I'm not going to keep pursuing a girl that makes eye contact once, clams up & never again.
Guys love that I'm a nerd, and I love people who are nerds, too.
The big thing for me is nerdiness isn't my only feature and I don't want it to be the only feature in the people I date. It used to be, and I see after two exes it's a bad sign.
Bring me the gym nerds, the nerds who also program, the nerds who write, the nerds who rock climb, the nerds as nerdy about environmentalism as they are about Pokemon.
Personally, I'll always date nerds. We just share good things in common. I run DnD games, am working on launching a DnD side-business, and want to get into streaming - I need a nerd who can keep up, lol!
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Nurdiness is a huge turn on even when you aren’t talking about games and shows or computers… like you could be a nerd about fitness and if you find a guy who is in to that he will worship the ground you walk. Those are typically called jocks I know… haha! But the point still stands… if you are obsessed with something truelly. And find a guy who is too… he will he all over you.
If on top of all that nerdiness she also indulges in masturbating very often while allowing me to watch and participate, that's absolutely a turnon ! By the way, another huge turnon is a girl gaming and masturbating at the same time... Really :0)
I don't see a girl playing mario kart and think "I want to hit that" so its not a turn on 😭
But playing games and "nerdy" things are really cool in my opinion. Thats one of the main reasons I like my s/o, because we have a lot in common that might be seen as nerdy or something.
There is a limit. I don’t want to walk into a room full of animé plushies and posters or find out she is doing costumed re-enactments at conventions, etc. I need a grown-up woman to live most of her life in reality.
As a guy with some "geeky" interests myself, yes, I find things like that endearing. It's not a "must have" by any means, but it's kind of a nice bonus when she's likely to understand my own geeky interests.
absolutely, girls forget that actually being fun can earn your brownie points
Definitely a Turn on
I used to Hit on Girls when I gamed
Back in the old days. If there was a Girl in the game I was playing I’d be the one to Tell her how Sexy she is.
I told 1 girl that I was gonna take her to dinner and her boyfriend got all pissy and told me to Fuck off.
I Even had 1 girl that enjoyed it when I Talked dirty to her we would
Play Black ops 2 all the time and we would always talk sexual to each other.
It absolutely is, I'm into those stuff too, but in general a girl being herself and having fun while doing so, is usually a turn on
It’s absolutely a turn on. Wish more nerdy girls would stop dumbing themselves down. That is definitely not the way to go!
Define nerdyness?
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You fucking bet it is. That would be a match for me
Definitely. Any time there is a common interest and something to bond over, it's a good thing.
Yes, and I hope it works the other way also. I don't play video games, but did you see my picture? lol
I would think it was pretty cool but not necessarily a turn on,
I'm not into any of that stuff myself, so I would find it a turnoff.
Not directly a turn on, unless it's used in a good way, but definitely interesting to be around. Gives us something to talk about.
You have big titties and a cute face, MILF. So being a nerd is a turn on.
Nerds me think of a schoolgirl which has my own fantasy
Sci-fi, yes. The rest of it, no, especially anime and roleplaying.
No. I like grown mature women. Not a little immature grown adult.
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