So I overthink a lot in general because I suffer from an overthinking condition called OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) specially around guys I like. I’m hanging out with this guy friend of mine and we both kinda like eachother tho I cannot be in relationships rn because of my condition so we’re just friends. When he hugs me and his hands wrapped around me get to like my ribs I think “he’s too close to your boob/side-boob he’s trying to get close and this is sexual assault” which is like wtf… then in another instance we were both on the bed watching a video and he was sitting up and I was laying down holding the phone and he laughed and lowered his head/forehead and it got a but too close to my chest to the point where it actually touched it a bit and my mind went “oh this is sexual assault” again and I can’t stop thinking about it. However it doesn’t bother me and I feel comfortable around him and I know he’s not at all trying to touch me or get close in an inappropriate way but my mind won’t stop. I feel like another girl would probably not even think about this but whatever he does when he’s close to me gets my mind spinning and I feel so uncomfortable thinking this. He’s the sweetest person ever and respects me every day. Is this overthinking?
Am I overthinking this?
