Okay, so I met this guy at Walmart in the vinyl aisle and really bonded over music, talked for a bit, and then he left. He came back and then asked if I was a student at the local university and I answered yes and he asked for my snap and invited me to go record shopping with him sometime. He texted me telling me that he thought I was really cute and wanted to hang out sometime. We made plans to hang out the following Friday. Before we even walked into his dorm, he kissed me and we just hung out. He came on a little strong, but I liked him. He texted me later apologizing if he came on strong and said that he just really liked me and thinks that this could work in the long run. We both agreed that we think it could really be something good and how it doesn’t happen often to either of us, so we kept on hanging out. While hanging out we kissed and made out a lot, but we also talked a lot and about in important things and future things. Then about a week and a half later, we had plans to hang out in my room and it ended up being late so he spent the night. The next morning I could already feel that his vibe was off. I went home that weekend and he texts me saying that he’s not ready for a relationship, but still wants to keep hanging out because he does like me and spending time with me and because I’m really cool. We’re still texting and talk just as easily as we had been, and acting the same minus the kissing and touching. Yesterday I felt like I was annoying him, though. He had gotten sick and was pretty bad off, and we were just texting. I knew he felt bad, so I bid him goodnight at 9. He responds at 1:30 with nothing but a black screen and I leave him on opened. I snapped him saying that we were going to lose our streak and he responded with “That’s because you left me on opened, goof.” He called me goof, love, babe, and darling while we were together. He’s just really confusing and I’d like to know if he was just in it for sex or if he really liked/es me.
How does he really feel about me?
