Would you all say this guy isn’t into me?

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In person, we have a great time and I really enjoy his company. He likes being with me too and he does text me saying stuff like he can’t wait to see me and etc. We aren’t in a relationship, but I’m starting to catch feelings for him. He always offers to pay and even pays when we go out. Only because
I do say no.
His text back game isn’t so good, he does work long hours. His job is finance. He always messages me between 10pm to 2am. I’ve stopped replying fast as well. I’ve also saw earlier that he joined telegram, and he didn’t bother to reply to me on WhatsApp.

I just don’t wanna get hurt.
I don’t think he’s into me, it’s like when we’re in person he does say all the good things but his messages show otherwise (of course he says cute things sometimes) but we just continue the conversation of whatever we are talking about.

When I’m with him I always do get drunk, he don’t drink. Maybe I’m the issue here, and maybe he has found someone better.
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When we’re in person, I don’t see him going on his phone much tho and when he speaks to me or we plan to meet up he says something like “that’s something to definitely look forward to”
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I can see from the messages, he used to reply fast to me when we first starting talking
Would you all say this guy isn’t into me?
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