Why do my male friends try to hug me?

Anonymous

I don't know what it is because I'm not someone who likes hugging people.

I love cuddles with my boyfriend and my mum not thats it.

I'm very small and petite and I always end up befriending the really tall guys at work because I always come to them for help and I think they find the hight different funny.

I literally have one guy at whose like 7ft no lie and I'm 5ft and now he's almost helping me and everyone kinda smiles at each other when they see us working together.

I have this other guy friend at work who I've always been a little guarded with because we were being really good friends to the point I thought I needed to step back and respect both mine and his separate relationships. We were becoming too close if you get my drift.

He's not very good at feelings and emotions as am I so when it came to him to have his last day at work today. He came to say goodbye to me. It was really awkward and then he asked for a hug. He is also around 6ft3 and he wrapped his arms around my whole body and rested his chin on my head and said "you are so little" he held on for really long too which made it even more awkward and everyone was looking. I just say what I think and said "well that wasn't a strange experience at all"🤣

I've had a lot of male friends try and hug me. Especially ones who are extremely tall.

Why do my male friends try to hug me?
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