Does he like me, or am I crazy?

[Anonymous]

There's a guy at work that I'm interested in but not close to. In the beginning, he was very attentive, and I thought he liked me back. I would move from one side of the room, and he would angle his body the same way while talking to someone. He was always watching me. But now he is acting a little cold. I've noticed that he notices me any time I enter the same area as him, but after that, he seems to ignore me. Yesterday, he striked up a small conversation, but today I tried to do that, and he kind of ended it ubruptly. And if we are in a group and I say something, he doesn't seem to acknowledge me, and then someone will be like oh she said this and then he responds but not directly. I drew a picture on our cubby white bored that said it was for him (joke that isn't important), and I went to show him, and he was like, yeah, I already took a picture of it and just ended it there. Same day a resident calls me a b*tch and he defends me and says to be nice as I'm walking away so it didn't seem to be just because I was there but because he wanted to defend me? So, to me, there are signs, but he doesn't seem interested at the same time? If anyone thinks he is interested, what do I do to get him to actually talk to me?

[SueShe]

He gives you the hot/cold treatment to get your attention. Of course he likes you and with his behavior, he hopes to get your attention, which he obviously has since you ask this question here on GaG.

The best option is to seek a face to face conversation and set the record straight. If you don't act upon it, nothing will ever happen as he seems to be a little introvert and shy. If you have feelings for him or if you crush on him, then take the initiative and talk to him.

By playing this kind of hide and seek game, you only risk that he loses interest and then what?

If he is too shy to make the first move, then it is up to you to do it unless of course, you are not interested.

[dampedlife15]

To be fair I think he’s just being himself, but I would suggest talking to him because more than likely he already got the hint that you are interested.

[spartan55]

Why don't you actually talk to him and stop micro analyzing crap like which way his body is facing.

[Asker]

I do talk to him I just googled signs and those were the ones he had 😂

[spartan55]

Yeah okay, to pin your hopes on those types of things is not smart. Body language is much more nuanced than just checking off the boxes.
You already talk to him? So why are you asking how to get him to talk to you? I'm a bit confused there. Sounds like if he was interested, it went away.

[Asker]

I've only had small conversations with him or jokes but they end sort of abruptly. I don't know how to keep a conversation going is what I was trying to ask. He's a quiet guy he doesn't really talk much to anyone if it isn't work related.

[spartan55]

You are going to have to get creative then.

[Iron_Man]

Do you have to communicate and discuss things and find out

[boobliker]

Just ask HIM