I find it really hard to tell with guy if they are my friend or they are after something else even though I have a boyfriend it still worries me because I'm not sure if I should trust them or not.
For example a male work friend offered me a lift home from work the other day and all the other women starting telling me not to get into a car with him because the last girl he gave a lift home said he tried to kiss her but this guy is a bit of a dick head he has a girlfriend and this other girl who says he tried to kiss her is known for being over dramatic about stuff.
I get this vibe from certain men sometimes but I'm told by others I'm overthinking it.
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I´m sorry I´m not sure if that´s possible. One form could be though is to observe how he reacts to you setting boundaries like for example you tell you only hug guys in your family and your boyfriend.
Does he accept those boundaries or does he seem uncomfortable with those because he seems like he wants more?
How does he interact with you when you mention that you have a boyfriend? Does try to get closer to you nevertheless or does he accept that gives himself at a certain distance from your life?
I think a guy who shows interest in you from a certain distance like not asking for physical contact is a good sign that he´s accepting to be a friend for you not your next boyfriend.
Yes it’s hard because everyone’s different. I say if you like someone be direct.
Some people you would think are into you. Aren’t they’re just good friends. While other times someone you could swear isn’t does