there is a boy in my Spanish class, we sit together and everyday we say ‘hi’ and as the school-year has gone by we have gotten more comfortable and close. well, the first time i questioned if he likes me was when he tried giving me bread, and continued trying to give me food. everytime he has food he made in his cooking class he tried to give it to me. we also are partners for all class-work. last week we shook hands and he playfully hit me on my head. and i often catch him looking at me. when i was absent for a day he told me he missed me. he shows me his drawings and tells me a lot about his childhood and family. he talks a lot, and told me i should talk more too because i am interesting. one day, he sat next to me even though there were many open seats left. i personally have had a crush on him for 5 years, so i just wanna see if i am right about my gut instinct, or if i am being delusional.
I don't think you are delusional. I think there is some interest there. That is my gut instinct. What you are describing is flirting to me. He is trying to get your attention, do favours and be playful around you.
I see that you are under 18, which this makes even more sense now. At younger ages, flirting is awkward. He doesn't know what to do next is my guess and hoping that you will be the one to make a move.
Now, even though this is what I think is happening does not mean that it is a 100% truth. It could also be that over time he has just become good friends with you. That is a possibility that he sees you as nothing more than a very good friend.
I personally don't think that is the case, but I could be completely wrong. Now, are you flirting with him back? If so, what sort of reactions do you get? I would look for positive reactions to flirting and that should tell you a lot. If you have more information, you can update the question or reply to me and I can comment further.
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yes, he likes you next time he does something very nice for you give him a kiss on the cheek and maybe lips next time. and see what goes... good luck
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Sounds like he is shy but interested.
He likes you. Sweet too. Hospitable.
Sounds like he genuinely likes you
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