Why men like thick girls & think skinny girls are ugly? How do you get thick legs and thick body?

[Sugar100]

Women with they body type thick fat get a lot of boyfriends 😞 men drool for women like that. They are fat but somehow have skinny waist & men chase those girls fast. I’m skinny bones and men don’t chase me. I’m skinny as my dad and mom were skinny however now as my moms older she has thick fat body like that and men drool for her 100 men wanting be her boyfriend. The more I eat more skinny I get I have no meat at all. Long weird arms and chicken legs. 😞 I have a boyfriend but I’m sad I don’t have thick fat body and line of men drooling over me.

[hahahmm]

1. Men and women think differently... I would say that 50% of the women which a (straight) woman says look 'hot' don't look hot to men... and maybe 90% of the women she says are fugly, actually look good to men. Probably because women often confuse/associate how they feel for what matters and how a woman feels is NOT how a man feels at all.

2. Guys tend to like feminine women. I mean if a guy wanted a woman who looks like a dude he'd be homosexual. Of course there are some closet cases who are attracted to women who look just like boys.

3. You & a lot of women seem to think it's some big deal for a man to be attracted to you. Men are attracted to 90% of the women on earth at some point in her adult life... and most would still have sex with most of the other 10% given the right circumstances. So when a woman thinks she has to jump through hoops to get sexual attention she's being foolish. When she thinks she has to have a body type she sees in the media or online to get attention she's being extra foolish. All she actually needs is to be reasonably fit... not a lazy slob... and not trying to look like a dude or a woman who is repulsed by men.

4. That all said... I don't approve of guys chasing women in today's world.

[BoopBoopBeep]

This should be MHO. I have nothing left to add.

[Soapwithsoap]

Just like different girls have interest in different type of guys, same is with us. That is often what my friends and I talk about on drink. Each has his own type, and the one that is for one 10/10 for others it is not. Plus there is not everything in body shape.

If your boyfriend likes you why would you want guys to drool over you?

No need for insecurities in this scenario.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not thick, and men like me a lot. Any place I go, I easily get in the center of attention without any effort, my face is not that special, I have a broken nose, so I blame this attention to my body.

Even when I am 2-3 kg more than my ideal weight, my waist is 58 cm and my hips are 92, my breast is very perky and not very small at all, but looks smaller compared to my bottom. However if you saw the pic of my breast alone, you’d think I have a decent size. My breast is 85 CM.

I think the waist to hip ratio is the most attractive thing about me. The difference between a very slim waist and moderately curvy hips. I think that’s very attractive for men.

I feel blessed for my parameters.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Why do you want the attention from other men when you have a man who loves you for who you are?

[Sugar100]

Because I feel ugly depresed insecure, and you hear girls break up with Bfs and get new bfs , so I might not forever be with boyfriend , I don't know what the future holds, so I won’t have a new boyfriend as I’m not thick

[Sugar100]

All women in Public have that body and I notice they get many guy friends or guys super nice to them as they like them. I have zero guys interested in me as I’m fucking skinny not thick. How the fuck they get fat and skinny waist and huge fat butt and fat body? What the fuck?

[Sugar100]

Do you need be born into a family of thick bones or soemthing?

[Ms_Facesitter]

How can you feel ugly when your boyfriend loves you? I don't understand why you should care about the opinion of people who have nothing to do with your life. Comparing yourself with others already isn't a good way to happiness, it only brings insecurity and in some cases depression if you really stick to that mindset.
People with many guy friends, got friends by how them carry themselves, not what their body looks like. There is probably even a meth addict out there with her skin peeling off who has more guy friends than the both of us combined.
I know for a fact that there are people out there who are better than me at something. But I don't look at what they can do better and what they have. I only look at what I have and at what I can do better. Be yourself, not someone else.

[Ms_Facesitter]

You don't need thick bones, you need thick skin. To not let insecurities like that conquer your life. Be realistic, not pessimistic.

[Sugar100]

But it’s true men pursue those types of girls my mom
Is fat and any guy likes her and even men my age like my mom
Instead of me as she’s fat thick and I’m skinny

[Ms_Facesitter]

You're still looking at others comparing and not just yourself. That is your problem :( not the types that men pursue, there are men for all types anyway.

[Sugar100]

Well I notice the truth. Young men my age pursue my mom and not me. Cuz she’s FAT

[Ms_Facesitter]

But you don't want or need those men though :(

[Ms_Facesitter]

I've seen plenty of succesful skinny women. And they don't compare themselves to others :/

[Sugar100]

Young men have to pursue me not my fat mom

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, people chase what they like. And most attractive people are people who own what they have proudly.

[Ms_Facesitter]

When you base your expectations only on what you see, you blind yourself to the possibilities of a new reality.

[bigrook]

I think your opinion is tainted by gangsta rap - a world that revolves around thick booty. Don't focus on that so much. Plus don't strive to achieve a phat ass because if your frame can't support it then all other parts of your body will also go for the ride.

[Dargil]

I'm not one of them. Bony as she is, if I were to spend a day in bed with Keira Knightley...

I might die of dehydration.

[Anonymous]

Lol so you’re still complaining that you don’t get attention from random men even though you have a boyfriend? Sound like Stephen Curry’s wife, never satisfied. Your man should leave you not because of how you look but because of the way you think.

[FresseDude]

Honestly, I think it’s a smaller but very vocal segment of men who seem to find gross thick/fat-ass women attractive. Big ol’ thick fat asses not only look disgusting, but are sweaty and smelly as well. A vast majority of men prefer thinner, fit women, but these men are not the currently popular men on social media (even though they’re the majority).

[Preeti161101]

Thin 😛

[Sugar100]

You are not too thin

[Preeti161101]

Yes 😂

[Prince_09]

How your legs are?

[bigrook]

That's some bangin booty shorts girl!!

[Hardworkingguy]

I believe that there are men who like different types of women so you shouldn't worry about that but if you actually want to get thicker legs there are different ways to achieve it

[rabbitzzz]

Yah, dat booty thicc! However, you can do it too.

[yakup_firidin]

I prefer skinny girls to the thick girls

[Sugar100]

Men don’t like skinny girls my mom has huge line of men wanting be her boyfriend as she is fat and I’m skinny no men like me except for my boyfriend

[yakup_firidin]

I see, the most of the men don't like thick girls in my country. İf you want to thicken I can suggest you do sport like a weight training

[jjj101010]

I much prefer slim girls to big

[Sugar100]

Everyone at my job or in public is like that woman in the photo. My mom is like that too fat and somehow the stomach rolls aren’t that noticiable. Men chase those kinds of women fast. I’m skinny and no man bothers look at me other than my boyfriend 😞

[Sugar100]

How the fuck they get thick legs thick arms fat body? I eat and more skinny I get

[jjj101010]

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