After he accused me of talking to another guy (it was actually a girl) I showed him the message he then said you can do what you want! I don’t get it.
He always double texts me aswell
It's hard to tell why he acted like that there are 3 things it could be, either he was jealous that he thought you were texting a guy, or he didn't think it would be an issue, or 3 he just doesn't care. Being friends with benefits is fine, some people have different views on how friends with benefits works. Maybe you could communicate with him what you do and dont like. For example, not messaging other people that you both intend to date/sleep with when it's your time together etc. Dont listen to the judgmental responses below about self respect and being sleazy, they clearly must have boring sex lives or are one of those gross people that judge women for having sex while high fiving men. you're allowed to have your fun, just make sure you set your boundaries with people so you dont get hurt in the process.
So you settle for friends with benefits since that’s all he’s willing to give, let him check your phone like a boyfriend, AND he sleeps with other women? Your self respect has left the room.
I think you both need some time away from each other.
He's an friends with benefits -- what am I missing?
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You signed up for that sleazy scene, wth did you expect?
You are friends, not committed
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