Why do really good looking boys always end up with a girlfriend that’s the complete opposite?

[Anonymous]

Some guys girlfriend will be not attractive in the slightest, they have that everyday look and don’t have anything special about them. Some look slutty or act and present themselves slutty whilst others might be a plain Jane. The guy in question might be good looking yet the plain Jane or slutty girls get them. I don’t understand like because they wouldn’t have better qualities or traits than someone like myself or anyone else.

[MrOracle]

It's because they aren't choosing the girl for one night - they are choosing her for the long term. And they choose women who are family (rather than career) oriented, who are cooperative, friendly, peaceful, and loyal. She might be a step down in looks, but she has it where it matters for a relationship.

Most women today, whether they realize it or not, have been taught how to attract a man for casual sex - and they do that well - but they have NO IDEA what men want for an actual relationship, and they have little interest in learning and even less interest in being those things. And that's why lots of guys will bang them but no one commits to them. They commit to the "plain Janes" who have the other qualities that men care about.

[Asker]

Sometimes they bang the plan Jane abs not commit to them actually. Just because she’s a plain Jane doesn’t mean they have a good personality or traits think to many rely on this. The plain Jane aren’t the best onces either

[MrOracle]

Obviously not every plain Jane is great, and sometimes they aren't relationship material. But OFTEN the plain Janes offer men a lot more of what they're looking for *for a relationship*, while hot women are much less likely to do so. There are always a few individual exceptions - you can only make generalizations when you talk about issues that cover millions of people.

[SirJohn42]

Just like women picking real ugly guys.

Its all about who they are attracted too.

Just like women wantimg men to meet their needs Guys want a woman to meet their needs as well.

In a relationship its not about handsome or beauty. Looks aren't everything. Its noce but if you love the person for who they are. The personsality. Then you found your true treasure.

If you go for looks people grow up and they dont look the same.
The superficialness will destroy the relationship. If you make it about looks or sex it will not succeed.

[Asker]

You say it’s about looks but you wouldn’t be with someone you didn’t like in that way would you? No matter how nice they are

[SirJohn42]

So I never judge looks if I love her personality.
I have my types but im learning that if she makes me happy she is the one I want. They say love is blind. I dont care what others think.
Its a plus if she is besutiful but its definstly not everything.

[SirJohn42]

She can be beautiful but have a real ugly heart. Or she may not be all that attractive but she has a lovely heart.
Im about being kind just not into material things.

[Asker]

She can be ugly and have an ugly heart to don’t be so quick to attack beautiful girls if they exist.

[SirJohn42]

Never said I would. Just looks to me isn't everything. Now I still have to be attracted. Im not just looking for anyone.
If she's got a ugly heart and her personality shows it im gone. I just dont waste my time with it.

[Fireguy17]

Because they are looking for more in a person than just a pretty face.
For many people someone's personality is way more important than their looks.
You have to actually like who you are with.
A very wise person said beauty fades, dumb is forever.

[Asker]

You wouldn’t get really intimate with a face that’s not nice to look at and I think it’s silly to say otherwise

[Fireguy17]

There is a big difference between doiking someone after bar time vs being in a relationship. Sure I think we have all done that at times, but that was pretty much a bag shag and skee dattle.
Great for one night, but not relationship material.
I was referring to being in a relationship, not just soiling someone's loins.
Sorry for the confusion, I should have been more explicit.
Like the Mickey Gilly song, Don't the Girls All Get Prettier at Closing time.
Or, any port in a storm.

[VikingWarLord]

I am always complimented on how good I look, and I've dated models before, so I know what value I have in the dating market. I have dated average chics in the past, simply because I know I can get away with more, even cheating or having her do threesomes or orgies with other hot females I find. It's a Leverage Dirty Dirty Game

[Asker]

I don’t understand how this answers my question

[VikingWarLord]

You're asking how good looking guys will end up with average plain Janes

The guy knows he will have leverage in the relationship if she's average

[Asker]

What leverage?

[VikingWarLord]

If he's attractive and she's average, she'll do more to keep him, because she knows he can find hotter options. That's why a guy like that would date a plain jane

[Asker]

If he’s attractive then no average girl should even be looking at him then that’s the problem thinking they’re for them when they aren’t..

[VikingWarLord]

Chics are hypergamous by nature, they're always gonna date UP.

I sometimes dip below my looks level because I know I can get her to do more things and even open the relationship up for threesomes and shyt.

[Asker]

That has nothing to do with it, just bloody excuse !!
No one in the right mind would dip below their looks and I’m telling you because iv seen it.

[MrCommodore]

Thats probably unfair, you might not see their qualities that a guy appreciates.

[Asker]

I doubt they have any and it’s foolish to think otherwise. Iv come across the assumption that someone who isn’t a plan Jane has no qualities and not really great traits when this isn’t always the case either just like it might not be with a plan Jane but who wants to be with someone who doesn’t take pride in appearance

[Anonymous]

Somebody's jelly. 😆😆😆