If i’m as “beautiful” as i’m told, why do guys never pursue me romantically? am I not that attractive? (Page 2)

minnminnharls · 2023-05-01T02:07:31Z

i’ve had plenty of guys want to sleep with me and they’re always “so” surprised (that’s men’s words for when they’re trying to get in your pants) when i tell them i’ve never been in a real relationship. it’s always “how is that possible” “how has no one snatched you up yet?” or “you’re so beautiful, you shouldn’t be available” and it’s like I don't know? i’m constantly getting stopped in the street, store or mall about how beautiful my eyes and smile are. my hair and complexion. i’m “beautiful” “gorgeous” “jaw-dropping” and i’ve tried flirting, sending signals & sweet talking, etc and NOTHING. it’s like i’m guy repellant and it takes such a big hit on my self-esteem because if i’m as gorgeous and beautiful as i’m told, why can’t i find a guy that will like me for more than sex? if i’m as attractive as i’m told, why do i always have to initiate? it’s so annoying and all i want is a connection but no. this sounds so pathetic but when is it MY TURN? 💀

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If you are having casual sex then don't be surprised to have a not wife material reputation.

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Are you actually sleeping with any of these guys, or are you saving yourself for the right one?

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Because most guys except the f-boys and player losers are intimidated, are afraid that you'd say no because you're pretty or feel you already have a boyfriend so what's the point of trying.

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What I don't hear is you taking the initiative and asking out the guys you want to date

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Are you a Scorpio?

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  LOL NO 😂 ♉️
  
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Good question I honestly have no advice

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Must be something that you're saying or doing

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You never give them a reason to.

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