My guy friend and I cuddle when we hang out and when I said I like it when we cuddle he said thats what you call it?

[Anonymous]

Me and my guy friend cuddle when we hang out at his house and that's all. We have been doing that for 8 years and one day I brought up casually that I love that we cuddle, he asked me " that's what you call you?" . I didn't ask further to ask what he means by that. To me it's just cuddling and I'm now confused why he said that. Can someone explain.

[devilish-cutie]

maybe he didn't thought that in such term as cuddling, maybe it was comforting or god knows what to him but girl its weird you do that, too intimate

[Asker]

Maybe. I know it sounds weird. We started cuddling because one time I had a huge accident and going through trauma. And that was him comforting me and it became a routine to cuddle and watch movies.

[jahaims]

You cuddled with another guy while in relationships or you haven't been in a relationship in the past 8 years?

[Asker]

I have been in relationships in those 8 years.

[RyanK9b]

He waits 8 years to smash, goddamn

[Asker]

Um there is a reason why I said we are just friends.

[RyanK9b]

You may said that. But he would if he could / if tge situation brings it up

[Avicenna]

You really need to ask him for clarification

[Iron_Man]

Ask him what he means