What should I do if a guy make fun of my body infront of his guy friends which is also my friends?

[Anonymous]

So actually we're like group of friends, I'm a girl and I like playing volleyball, where I met this guy he's actually funny and sweet with me but whenever we're like gathering with this group of friends he always made fun of me , especially my body. I once asked him "why me, when there' s a lot of us?" but he always answer me with the same line " Because your chill and doesn't take jokes seriously" . I want to avoid this group of friends especially this guy but the thing is I hate phones and social media and volleyball is the only way to escape. So what should I do?

[_Maya_]

Why is it that you can't avoid them. I guess I am a little unclear on why you just don't avoid them altogether? Just ignore him when he says stuff. Don't even give a reaction. Eventually he will get bored and tire of it. He does it because you react even if it is not in a negative way. That is one thing I would do but seriously I would avoid him and his group of friends completely. That solves the issue right there.

[Anemone978]

I had a friend like this he was really nice when we were alone but when we were in a group he would tease me and act like we weren't friends... basically it is because he doesn't like you for some reason or thinks you are a nerd.. I suggest making fun of him hard like something that is true and will make him insecure.. and go back to being nice when you talk together. If he doesn't change just call him out straight to his face in front of everyone to knock it off..

[Asker]

Thank you , thank you ❤️

[Anemone978]

No problem! Hope you two can work whatever out :D

[JackCarter]

Just say out right that you don't appreciate such comments and ignore and stay away from him
If he is like bullying or something, complain.. or if you have a elder brother tell him
I loved putting the guys who annoyed my sister in place and humbling them lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Make it clear to him you don't appreciate his comments.

[Asker]

thanks I will ask him now for sure

[KrakenAttackin]

Take him aside privately and be candid but respectful. Some people are thick and need blunt explanations.

[JesseP1nk]

Tell him to stop.

[Asker]

Yes I just did tell him now , and he said "hahahah I'll try" . I don't understand what he meant

[JesseP1nk]

Tell him to "Better stop. Because noone like harasser and you been told to stop"

[Grovermint]

Male fun of his appearance.