I've been friends with benefits with a guy for a year now. And I see where he follows skinny chicks with tattoos on social media. Yet I don't look like any of these women. So it's obvious that this is the type of woman he likes. So why has he been having sex with me for a year?
The last time I saw him he said he wouldn't have sex with a woman he's not attracted to. But clearly, that's a lie otherwise he wouldn't be having sex with me because I'm not his type.
Why does he lie and pretend to be attracted to me? I'm just trying to understand the logic behind this because it really doesn't make any sense to me.
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I said things just to test him to see what he'd say and he's still pretending. I told him I'd let him know when I wanted to see him again and he said ok. I even mentioned that I wanted to try a certain position with him and he acted like he wanted to try it. This is all so insane to me. Like how can a man pretend like this? I think there must be something mentally wrong with him.
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its very simple, he is sexually attracted to you, thats why he is having sex with you, but you are not his ideal type, thats why you are friends with benefits
Wrong that's not why we are friends with benefits.
If I wasn't his ideal type then why did he like me on a dating app and go out on a date with me? He knew what I looked like when he matched with me on the dating app.
I told you cause he was sexually attracted to you and wanted sex, men are sexually attracted to many women, you dont have to be his ideal type
Because you're easy lay to him and he's likely just using you till something better comes along.
Wrong, we've been having sex for an entire year and it doesn't seem like he wants to stop. Something better comes along? You don't know anything about me. Get a life troll.
sounds like a guy who just wants some ass
@leahzrc You see, you can say that; if I say something like that, I'm going to sound like a heartless, uncaring jerk:)
That has nothing to do with him pretending to be attracted to me for an entire year. It's not like we had sex once and that's it. No, we've been doing this for an entire year. And it doesn't seem like he wants to stop. We also cuddle sometimes as well.
And for the other guy I guess he just wants some ass too right?
If he was attracted to you more he would want to wife you
@Billlewis I am dating a red pill guy, he is corrupting my mind
This doesn't make any sense a man being attracted to a woman doesn't automatically mean he would wan to wife her. He's been married before and ended up in a divorce and he doesn't want to get married again. You' don't know what you're talking about at all.
I personally don't pursue pleasure from a man like you do
Oh well that's you and probably why you have a boring sex life.
lmao not at all