He sent me a message on instagram because he knew we were in the same university. We dated for 1 week then he said "you're my girlfriend now, i told my friends and my sister.". But I found this strange and refused his meeting offer all the time. He was nice, polite and caring to me all the time we talked. After a month he sent me a long voice message (10 minutes) and he told me "you broke my heart, i feel sad because i love you, i care about you, im trying to meet but you don't want to meet me. I think you dont love me." etc. I accept meeting offer and we met twice in 2 months. He always treated me respectfully and well. We never had sexual things just innocent kisses. He dreamed of a future with me, he told me everything, he wanted to introduce me to his friends, he made me a playlist, he drove me home, he always just talked to me (He may have talked to other girls during the day because I was only text him in the evening) and he always helped me. But he decided to go his hometown for 2 months (his hometown is in the same country). We texted in the morning, but in the evening he told me that "someone close to me died, I can't be like before, we do not talk anymore look at other men for your good." . Now do you think his excuse is true? Or did he not like me and was just hanging out with me?
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Sounds like he was love bombing you to get you close to him, and now that you’re close to him, he’s making up a fake scenario to see if you’ll stay with him, or if you’ll leave and see other men. And I guarantee that if you do what he says and leave him alone, he’ll tell you that you never loved him and that you used him and all these other ways to guilt trip you. I’ve met guys (and girls) like him before. Based solely on the information you’ve provided, he sounds like a pain.
I stopped talking to him, he unfollowed me and we never spoke again but he doesn't have a girlfriend at the moment and i'm still saved on his phone but i deleted him
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