Guys, so guys who say you want a stay at home girlfriend / wife what do you think she'll be doing when not cooking, cleaning or child care?

[Anonymous]

I mean none of the above takes more than a few hours a week. Even child care is limited to how much time it'll consume - generally toddlers need more care than older kids.

Unless she is terribly disorganized most women should be done all house chores within 4 hours at the absolute lazy-ass maxiumum per day. And less if there's no children to care for.

[Mansearching]

I don't want a stay at home girlfriend/wife. She needs to work also. 2 incomes is better than one. I learned how to cook, clean, laundry at a young age. I can probably clean a house better than her. We will split the house duties. I can multitask during college football season and nfl season. Its not really that hard.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am curious if your statements about child care are based on you raising children, or what you have observed in the lives of other women?

[Asker]

Basic statistics. It takes 20 minutes at most to change a diaper unless you're an idiot.

[OlderAndWiser]

So the answer is, "No, I've never taken care of children as a stay at home mom." What you know from a distance is not a substitute for having had the experience. I would not begin to pontificate on what is involved in caring fior a small child.

[Asker]

I've baby sat children for 10 years, including 7 children of my neighbor for 2 months as she & her husband worked 3 jobs between them to try and make ends meet.

Come back when you have a valid complaint & not just causing issues for no reason. As I said, this is a generic time frame and specifically pointed out what would they be doing with NO children.

[OlderAndWiser]

Obviously, you must be right, because you said so.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Most guys want a housewife is for them to control you in all aspects; you are there to serve their every desires on a whim as they will feel entitled to it since you rely on them to feed and clothe you 100%.

[teamvic]

In a perfect world probably watching TV or something they wanna do. Realistically, probably cheating

[shortster]

Relaxing