Women: have you ever caught your man looking at another woman?

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And if so, how did it make you feel?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Looking has nothing to do with loyalty.

My wife and trust each other completely and are 100% loyal. But I check out notable female specimens and she doesn't mind. Sometimes she even calls my attention to them.

She's fine with my noticing big boobs with jiggly cleavage on full display.

Or like walking along the boardwalk at the beach and a couple of hot women in bikinis roller blade by, we both notice as they approach and then turn to watch their bare asses sashay as they pass.

One time, we were on a ferry in San Francisco Bay. A sail boat passed very near and two girls raised their tops to flash our boat. My wife nudged me and pointed so that I wouldn't miss it.

One time went to get frozen yogurt in a shop by a lake. In front of us were four young people, maybe in their late teens or early 20s. One girl was wearing a beach shop that only covered the very top of her ass. She must have been wearing a thong, because it looked like her ass was bare naked.
My wife and I both looked at each other. Then I reached out and gestured as if I was going to give that smooth, plump, wide, round, white ass a squeeze. No one else could see. My wife and I both laughed silently.

She thinks it's amusing that I enjoy the sight of women's bodies. She appreciates the male form, too.

Sometimes things like that lead to playfulness when we get home. She knows that she has a woman's body and that I love it. She's the only one I desire.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

There are millions of hot women in the world and my ability to see and appreciate their hotness didn't suddenly stop when I promised faithfulness and loyalty to my girlfriend/now fiancée. When I see a pretty girl, I look. . . but I don't chase, I don't flirt, I don't take other women to lunch or go anywhere with another woman if it will just be the two of us. When I leave work, I don't go to a bar; I come home. I call my fiancée when I am leaving the office and she knows I will be home in 10-15 minutes, depending on the traffic. I am at home every night unless I have a meeting to attend (choir practice, fraternity chapter meeting, church council) and if I have a meeting, my fiancée knows where I am, about how long it will last, and when I will probably be home. And when I leave my meeting, I call her to tell her that I am on the way home.

She has no reason to distrust me, so why should she be jealous of me looking at a pretty young girl during the day? My fiancée knows I will be in our bed that night, not elsewhere.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

No haven't noticed him looking, which means he is respectful of me most of the time.
Though he did stare at this bitch that took her clothes off in front of us for no reason (according to her it was a "joke").. They both almost got their ass beat but I held my composure because no slut is ever gonna make me feel less or make me embarrass myself, but she got what was coming to her.

Beccaasaar · Accepted Answer

Yes all the time and I call him out on it, and I try not to get butt hurt about it bc I try to look also but I have no motivation or interest in looking at other guys guess I'm loyal since I have no interest.

CubsterShura · Answer

There is a difference between seeing and looking. Sometimes men look at women without noticing that they are doing it which I don't mind but I don't excuse my partner looking at other women deliberately.

Samantha36 · Answer

No, it's me that is the pervert. When we go out it's always me pointing out the nice butt and big boobs to him

blueonblack22 · Answer

People are going to notice other people. But it becomes a problem when you start dwelling on it.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

You can't help but look sometimes, but, you sure as hell shouldn't stare. Not unless you want to remain on her good side.

Nifrayu · Answer

Checking out other people has never been a problem for me or my partner. We're both perfectly secure and it doesn't both me when she does it or vice versa.

Anonymous · Answer

Caught my girl checking out a black guy on a nude beach. Guy had a dick like a python

chrissykerdock · Answer

not a big deal long as he don't talk to them i'm fine

Unit1 · Answer

Some women act like we don't have eyes until we look at other women for longer than half a second. Crazy women.

jahaims · Answer

We play a game while in public, if we see someone that is attractive we point them out to each other to see if we agree.

AndreaScker · Answer

Yeah and it makes me feel horny and I either whisper to him how I'd share him with her and what filthy ways we'd use her in or talk about her the next time we fuck

fantasticass · Answer

Men ALWAYS look at other women. It's in their DNA. It's who they are. It doesn't matter to me. I'd be worried if he didn't look🤣✌️🇨🇦

Libarena · Answer

Yep. But he'd better not do anything more.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

My wife used to point them out to me if I missed them.

LadyTerpsichore · Answer

No need to catch him, we talk about others' looks all the time- we're both bi, so we both like to look at other men and women. No jealousy if you're really in love.

Libidononexistenteww · Answer

U sure? A python? I wouldn’t care I wish mine would find another girl he sucks ahahaha

MissBoogus · Answer

I think so. I don’t care!

elizamichale1 · Answer

Yeah..

sheikalana · Answer

No, I haven't.

Anonymous · Answer

yes most of the time...

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