How should I behave in this situation?

[watermelon67]

I have a gym crush. We are attending same classes. He caught my attention first by looking at me or stealing glances, repeatedly. I couldn't smile him because I'm shy. A day, he saw me talking with another guy friend (I'm not always talking with people in the gym) and he completely stopped looking at me. Now, it seems that we are aware of each other but there's no attempt. Today, I was looking at a dating app, I saw him and send smile to him/swiped right. I don't have any reactions from him until noe. I also don't see his profile again. (I assume if he rejects me, I can see his profile again) I'm a bit embarrassed now and don't know what to do, what to expect when I see him.

[_Maya_]

Don't expect anything. Just go about your business and don't worry about it. So it wasn't a love connection. That happens all the time. You aren't going to match with everyone you have eyes for. I wouldn't worry about it too much. He probably will keep to himself just like you should. No reason you can't do your gym classes because of this. It might be a little awkward at first but you'll both get over it. Don't let one rejection change your daily routines. If you let that sorta thing happen then you will quit doing lots of stuff you enjoy.

[_Maya_]

@watermelon67 I wouldn't put too much stalk into a user that uses an Ai bot for their opinions. I can show you that I got a matchimg response from ChatGpt if you want. Heck you can try it yohrself. My only point is that you can trust either a real person and their thoughts or a computer program. Up to you.

[watermelon67]

Thanks for it. I sense it the answer isn't done by human too.. anyway, I will go to gym for sure because it's my main hobby.. I'm just not sure how to make conclusion. He might not see my like.. it's fb dating app, if he is active, for sure, he saw my like.. obviously, we're not matched, but if he rejected me, I should see his profile again like tinder..

[_Maya_]

That's a good hobby to have. As for the guy all you can do is hope for the best that it wasn't a rejection and this is just a misunderstanding. Hope things work out for you.

[JesseP1nk]

Thats easy one. The guy in the gym you spoke, he spooked him away. He thinks that is your boyfriend or someone you are intrested in. Thats why he no longer watched you at the gym and rejected you at the dating app.

Solution? Try talk to him at the gym. Easy topics, tell him you two should hangout and set a date.

[Billlewis]

You must decide whether to wait and see if he contacts you or reach out to him, assuming you have a way to get in touch with him, and ask him what his deal is.

[spartan55]

She's the one with the deal not him

[Summeroflove]

I think you should talk to him. Just speak directly to him and see if he wants to go out. You probably waited too long and he’s starting to move on.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to him at the gym

[Anonymous]

Crushes are for teenagers.