We used to be friends in college and he was always very sweet to me. After not having seen him for 2 years he asked me out on a date and seemed genuienly interested. However when I met him he looked very disinterested as if I forced him to go with me and always looked around at other people instead of me during the whole time.
Why did he change so much and why did he ask me out if he was not that interested? He has known me for years and knows that I'm not an easy girl.
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Who knows. Maybe he was nervous and trying not to show it by playing it cool.
Or maybe he's been watching mansphere guru douche bags who say that women don't respect men who act interested.
Maybe you are the one who changed.
How? I don't look worse and even lost weight.
The last time he saw me he told me I looked very pretty and I didn't even ask him
Personality, attitude?
my personality barely change and he seemed disinterested upon greeting me
Okay, well clearly his perception changed about you for some reason.
So you have zero romantic interest in this guy? Why do you even care then? Ego?
Yes and also because I used to like him as a friend and for some reason he doesn’t want to know me anymore
No guy wants to be your friend.
Why?
There's really no point once they find you attractive.
Maybe they don’t?
Believe what you want.
Was he nervous perhaps?
perhaps, but his body language rather screamed "you're not good/interesting enough for me" even though he always used to like hanging out with me. I see this with one coworker as well. When he talks with me his body points in a different direction and oftentimes he can't avoids eye contact. This guy is very friendly and polite but seems to go out of his way to show me that im not worthy of his attention even though i rarely approached him
Then I wouldn’t bother anymore. If you want, ask him if he was at all interested.
I did. He apologized and said he didn't know what was wrong with him. I just dont understand him
Do you want to give him another chance?
no, i was never interested in him romantically and i dont mind losing a friend
Ok. Then I say don’t worry about it.
I mean, there’s not much you can do from here. You already talked to him and you know you don’t like him more than a friend.