My boyfriend won't help me out with rent? What should I do? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2023-11-13T21:08:20Z

I've been through a really hard period lately. I've been having health issues which made me unable to work and now I'm struggling to get another job. I also spent so much money on doctors. I don't have enough money to pay my rent. I asked my boyfriend to help me out this time but he refused. When we met I was in a better financial situation than him and I was often paying for our dates but now I can't afford almost anything. He recently bought a car and started building his own house... even last night he told me I know you really love me because when we started dating I didn't have anything. But now when I'm struggling he won't help me out. He also wants to spend all his free time with me, he does take me out, he buys me food but I really need to pay my rent it seems like he doesn't understand this. He said I can stay with him and his mom but I don't want to live with his mom. Besides he spends more time at my place than his. I'm thinking to ask someone else to help me out but it's embarassing because he should be the first person to help me out. And I also know he would be pissed if another guy helped me out. But at this point I am thinking to break up with him.

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Anonymous
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6 mo

Ask him after doing butt stuff with him, usually works on my boyfriend.

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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  😂😂 maybe it would work but I already broke up
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  5 mo
  That works too
  
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Erin2003 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 20 , mho 38%

6 mo

Stop mistaking him for your boyfriend

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- Asker
  
  5 mo
  Exactly
  
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Anonymous
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6 mo

Beggers can't be choosers. You should have. moved in w him and his mom.

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jahaims Follow
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Him being your boyfriend and you paying for past dates doesn't mean he should help you pay rent.

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Vegasrunner Follow
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6 mo

Sounds like he dogdged a bullet. This is another example of why men and women are not equal.

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Jmmmfi4 Follow
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YEAH IT SUCKS... IM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING SIMILAR

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  6 mo
  It sucks exactly 😂
  
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Anonymous
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6 mo

Just get married. Boom. Problem solved. Now he’s gotta pay rent.

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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  I was just hoping he would help me when I need it... why would I marry him I'm not interested in money, I thought we had something real guess not
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  6 mo
  Oh. I agree with you breaking up with him. I will never understand the guys who leave their women out in the cold like that.
  
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- Asker
  
  5 mo
  Well man or woman it doesn't matter... you claim you love someone, but you are never there when they need you
  
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jimmy2 Follow
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What an asshole. ger better than leave his ass

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  Truee
  
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Unit1 Follow
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you broke up with him. this is finished.

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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  😂 yeah no he is so clingy he doesn't accept this
  
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Luckycharms12 Follow
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Maybe he doesn't have the money

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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  He does
  
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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  It's not even that he doesn't give me the money but he can't even accept that I have problems and can't give him all the attention he wants right now
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
  6 mo
  You don't know how anyone is financially
  
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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  Well we spend every day together I see how much he is spending on unenecassary things
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
  6 mo
  Doesn't want a relationship to be interfered with by Money. As family for money
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
  6 mo
  Or get a loan with bank
  
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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  I don't talk to my family, I have friends though... but he hates my friends
  
  I broke up with him now
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
  6 mo
  Okay
  
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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  I just can't understand this I would give him my last penny basically I see him as my family but I guess not
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
  6 mo
  Did you ask him why
  
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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  He said he wanted to help me out but since I already broke up with him, he won't 😂 But then later again he said if you don't sort it out yourself, call me. He said my behaviour towards him changed but it didn't I'm just overwhelmed with my problems and he is so needy
  
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- Luckycharms12
  
  6 mo
  Well did break up with him
  
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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  All day he is telling me are you angry at me I say no, he says yes you are, something is going on, you are hiding something from me... etc and I just can't listen to this nonesense on top of everything I'm going through
  
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- Asker
  
  6 mo
  I did I broke up, he is going to another city for work now, he said he will call me on Saturday when he comes back
  
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FunkyMonkee Follow
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6 mo
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Kick him out!

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RedInnocent68 Follow
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6 mo

Withhold sex

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- Asker
  
  5 mo
  Ahahah I'm not like that
  
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- RedInnocent68
  
  5 mo
  You’re very kind. Or very horny… 😉😂
  
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